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My DH won't do anal anymore because...

Anonymous
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He can't pound it like he can vaginally. I love anal but only at a slow pace but from behind, so he should enjoy having that. I don't think it's fair to take it away when he can pound me any other way.

It's so frustrating.😣 He is anal obsessed and I've tried letting him pound me out but it hurt too much to continue.

I do tell him to pound me out vaginally first, then finish in my ass.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:39 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:42 AM
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Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:46 AM
I do. I love it hard and I love anal but not hard. He just loves the tightness and wants to devour it. I get it but it hurts and I like it slow. I get wet thst way.
I love his dick so I'm not good with threats.

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:46 AM
She obviously does

Quoting Anonymous 2:

Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:48 AM

   She edited it to add on the other part or the last part didn't load up on my phone for some reason. This part was missing when I replied

'I do tell him to pound me out vaginally first, then finish in my ass.'

Quoting Anonymous 3: She obviously does
Quoting Anonymous 2:

Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'


Canadiana
by Platinum Member on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:50 AM
Can't be very tight if he needs to pound like that. He sounds.like one of those awful high school sex partners you never want to experience again. Also there's an area for this ffs. I think your post warrants it.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I do. I love it hard and I love anal but not hard. He just loves the tightness and wants to devour it. I get it but it hurts and I like it slow. I get wet thst way.

I love his focl so I'm not good with threats.
Quoting Anonymous 2:

Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:51 AM
Does he ever try using his fingers first while he goes down on you to get you warmed up? This is the only way I can get going with anal. Dh has to start slow and then he can build up to fast and hard. Does your dh understand that it takes a minute to get there when he's back there.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:53 AM
It is tight, he just likes rough sex like I do.

Quoting Canadiana: Can't be very tight if he needs to pound like that. He sounds.like one of those awful high school sex partners you never want to experience again. Also there's an area for this ffs. I think your post warrants it.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I do. I love it hard and I love anal but not hard. He just loves the tightness and wants to devour it. I get it but it hurts and I like it slow. I get wet thst way.
I love his focl so I'm not good with threats.
Quoting Anonymous 2:

Um.......Do you enjoy it vaginally that way?  Because I wouldn't. Honestly I'd be like 'well fuck your hand or a pie then and stay out of my vagina'

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:54 AM
I don't like fingers but he has used my bullet. Too hard in my ass still hurts.

Quoting Anonymous 4: Does he ever try using his fingers first while he goes down on you to get you warmed up? This is the only way I can get going with anal. Dh has to start slow and then he can build up to fast and hard. Does your dh understand that it takes a minute to get there when he's back there.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:56 AM
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I find your wording to be brutal and violent. I am not sure why anyone would see this as a tender and intimate loving act.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 18, 2017 at 12:58 AM
Well I hope you two can meet in the middle and find a way that satisfies you both.

Quoting Anonymous 1: I don't like fingers but he has used my bullet. Too hard in my ass still hurts.

Quoting Anonymous 4: Does he ever try using his fingers first while he goes down on you to get you warmed up? This is the only way I can get going with anal. Dh has to start slow and then he can build up to fast and hard. Does your dh understand that it takes a minute to get there when he's back there.
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