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My DH was snooping and now is mad at me!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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Back story
My Bff moved across the State so now I don't get to see her at all. But we do keep in touch by fb & messaging.

My bestfriend and I were both catching up & bitching about life and other things.
We got on to the subject of sex. I told her that recently sex had been awful. It's like DH has lost his skill.
My friend replid back how she had worse.
She told me of her last bad time we both laughed and moved on.

My DH borrowed my phone b/c he broke his screen on the ice & is waiting for his replacement.

While he had my phone he snooped and read our entire chat.

Now he is mad at me.
Should I apologize?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:44 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:46 PM
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No, don’t apologize.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:46 PM
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Uh yeah. How would you feel if he were talking shit to his friends about your sexual ability. You should be discussing this with your sex partner. Not making fun of him with your friends.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:46 PM
Bump
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:46 PM
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No, that''s his reward for snooping. He needs to work on his technique.

Phoenix_lament
by Fawkes on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:46 PM
Nope
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:47 PM
Nope. Same thing happened to me. My friend and I were both having a tough time in our marriages, we leaned on each other, gave advice, etc. We moved on. Her dh read her texts and flipped.
Iguessiwasbad13
by Platinum Member on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:47 PM
He'd be without a phone if his doesn't work and he can't mind his own business.
MikeysMom22
by Ruby Member on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:48 PM
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Both of you were wrong.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:49 PM
I wasn't making fun. My friend was trying to make me feel better about the situation.

It wouldn't bother me if my DH did.

Quoting Anonymous 3: Uh yeah. How would you feel if he were talking shit to his friends about your sexual ability. You should be discussing this with your sex partner. Not making fun of him with your friends.
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 18, 2018 at 8:49 PM
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Nope.....thats what happens when you are being a nosy ass and a shitty lover
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