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What do I say?

Anonymous
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DH told the kids that he doesn't love me.

Dd8 says is he isn't her dad if he can say that and hurt me.

Dd7 called him a liar and says she was disappointed in him. She wrote my name on top of all his "daddy art."

Dd2 says she cannot sleep with him in the house.

What do I say to them?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:47 PM
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dandynorm
by Gold Member on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:48 PM
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You say nothing to them except that you love them, that BOTH of their parents love them, and everything will be fine. 

To him you show some self respect and tell him to leave

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:49 PM
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Lol. Your two year old is amazing.

Quoting Anonymous 1: DH told the kids that he doesn't love me.

Dd8 says is he isn't her dad if he can say that and hurt me.

Dd7 called him a liar and says she was disappointed in him. She wrote my name on top of all his "daddy art."

Dd2 says she cannot sleep with him in the house.

What do I say to them?
SissyAnn141
by Platinum Member on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:51 PM

Help him pack his things.

 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:52 PM
You’re the “why are you crying” lady, yes?

Now your husband is abusing the kids, not just you, and they’re the only ones willing to stand up to him. This shit needs to stop. Follow your children’s example and grow a pair.
Twinklesthecat
by Gold Member on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:52 PM
Why are you getting your kids involved in this,both you and him need to keep the kids out off this.alsobtry and not be so desperate if he wants to leave let him leave,just make him aware that you entitled to half of everything and you'll also be filling for spousal & child support.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:53 PM
Your 2 year old said she could not sleep in the house with him?! Come on.

Don’t say anything, just draw their attention to something else.. kids don’t need to be worrying about that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:53 PM
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You tell your kids that what daddy said was not an okay thing to say to them and that whatever is going on between you and their daddy has nothing to do with them. You both will continue to love them even if mommy and daddy aren’t together.
Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:53 PM
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Y'all both need to keep your kids out of this mess.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:53 PM
She asked why I was crying and found rags (cleaning rags) to wipe my face.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Lol. Your two year old is amazing.

Quoting Anonymous 1: DH told the kids that he doesn't love me.

Dd8 says is he isn't her dad if he can say that and hurt me.

Dd7 called him a liar and says she was disappointed in him. She wrote my name on top of all his "daddy art."

Dd2 says she cannot sleep with him in the house.

What do I say to them?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 20, 2018 at 7:54 PM
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Send him packing and comfort them.  He is an awful person to drag the children into this the way he did.  And now they are doing what you should be doing and that is cutting his toxic behind out of their lives.

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