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Im still going to do it

Anonymous
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Ive been single for a couple years and just not interested in anything. I do have a fwb but he's been flaky the last 4 months so ive been kinda looking for one, it's not top priority so.
But i am on tinder and i happen to come across my "ex" from MIDDLE SCHOOL lol i was 14 when we dated. So i swiped right to see if we matched and we did.
He messged me on fb (because we are friends on fb, we just havent talked over the past 4ish years because he was in the marines) and we started talking and we happen to both want a fwb and not JUST sex either like hang out and such.
We moved to texting each other and we were talking about something and it led to him mentioning us dating and i said it's been 10yrs almost 11yrs since. I thought that was crazy how long it's been.
I had my best friend over and i told her everything and she thinks it isn't a good idea to do a fwb with an "ex".
We didn't date long back then and us breaking up back than was a mutual decision and we even stayed friends till our senior year of highschool.
What do you think?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:38 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:39 PM
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I think fwb is trashy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:41 PM
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I thought having a fwb who you also hang out with was called dating.
TurtleMami
by Gold Member on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:42 PM
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I don't think it's a big deal, dating in middle school isn't really dating in my opinion.
tklrcl2014
by Platinum Member on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:43 PM
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Maybe I'm old but what the hell is a fwb? lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:43 PM
How in the world is it trashy?

Quoting Anonymous 2: I think fwb is trashy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:44 PM
No...

Quoting Anonymous 3: I thought having a fwb who you also hang out with was called dating.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:44 PM
Friends with benefits

Quoting tklrcl2014:

Maybe I'm old but what the hell is a fwb? lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:45 PM
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Yeah it is. Its dating but not serious. Fwb is just for the banging.

Quoting Anonymous 1: No...

Quoting Anonymous 3: I thought having a fwb who you also hang out with was called dating.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:45 PM
I agree.

But “dating” in middle school isn’t actually dating and isn’t worth anything as an adult.

Quoting Anonymous 2: I think fwb is trashy.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 2:45 PM
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No it isn't.

Quoting Anonymous 3: Yeah it is. Its dating but not serious. Fwb is just for the banging.

Quoting Anonymous 1: No...

Quoting Anonymous 3: I thought having a fwb who you also hang out with was called dating.
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