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not going to tell him ..UPDATE

Anonymous
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I've been divorced for 3 years. Single the entire time. I have a great job and my kids are 11 and 13. With joint custody and their ages I've had a lot of free time. During this time I've gotten myself involved with a younger man.... a much much younger man. Everything has been going fine and keeping this a secret for the past year hasn't been a problem . We aren't dating we have just occasaionally had sex/went out.
Well I haven't had a period for 3 months. My tubes are tied but I called the clinic and they suggested I set up an appt. That appt was Thursday where I learned I was about 8-10 weeks pregnant. An ultrasound was done Friday to rule out a tubal and it's a viable pregnancy . I haven't told the dude. He's the only person I've slept with in almost a year. Idk what to do because I don't think I can emotionally handle an abortion but I don't want to be known as the cougar mom whore
So here it is Sunday, he knows I'm home alone. He's texted twice asking about coming over and I'm ignoring it


UPDATE. I told him last night . I said there was a problem with my tubal and I'd have to get an abortion. I didn't go into detail and it probably gave the impression it wasn't a viable pregnancy. He was cool with it , didn't argue and asked if I needed him to go.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:47 PM
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left.drowning
by Fix Me on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:50 PM
Tell him
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:52 PM
Tell him. Be honest.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:53 PM
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Just get an abortion. You'll be glad you did.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:55 PM
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How much younger are we talking? Is he out of high school?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:57 PM
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Is this like Gabby Solis status?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:57 PM
19.

Quoting Anonymous 4: How much younger are we talking? Is he out of high school?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:57 PM
I’m sorry.
How young is this guy???
MrsDavidB25
by Stacey on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:57 PM

Well you need to decide VERY soon.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:57 PM
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Yes this. 100% yes this.

Quoting Anonymous 3: Just get an abortion. You'll be glad you did.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 21, 2018 at 3:58 PM
He's 19. Fucking barely 19.

Quoting Anonymous 6: I’m sorry.
How young is this guy???
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