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Husband borrowed money behind my back

Anonymous
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My husband borrowed $5k from his sister and didn’t tell me. I feel angry and betrayed that he would do this without talking to me about it since it’s our money and we have no way of paying it back. We both work and now I’m super stressed. I haven’t confronted him about it yet.

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Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:25 AM
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Talkingheads
by Emerald Member on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:26 AM
What was it for? Either way it would be separation and marriage counseling
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:26 AM
What did he use it for and how did you find out?
ReedusStalker
by 11-15/3-27 on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:27 AM


Quoting Anonymous 2: What did he use it for and how did you find out?
StarLight23
by Ruby Member on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:29 AM

What did he use it for, and do you know for SURE you have to pay it back? Sometimes people inherit money and things.

Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:30 AM
This

Quoting Anonymous 2: What did he use it for and how did you find out?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:30 AM
Legal fees over a contract dispute. We went to his sister’s house for dinner on Sunday and she texted him that morning asking if she should mail the attorney the check for $5k or give it to him when we saw her. He was in the shower and the message showed up on the screen. I was infuriated and in shock didn’t want to lose it in front of the kids.

Quoting Anonymous 2: What did he use it for and how did you find out?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:32 AM
Can you open up your own bank account that he can’t get into?
Talkingheads
by Emerald Member on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:32 AM
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What's the contract dispute and terms of repayment

Quoting Anonymous 1: Legal fees over a contract dispute. We went to his sister’s house for dinner on Sunday and she texted him that morning asking if she should mail the attorney the check for $5k or give it to him when we saw her. He was in the shower and the message showed up on the screen. I was infuriated and in shock didn’t want to lose it in front of the kids.

Quoting Anonymous 2: What did he use it for and how did you find out?
corticosteroid
by on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:40 AM

Well, it’s really too late to come anything about it now.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jan. 23, 2018 at 8:42 AM
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Grow up. He borrowed money not wasted on hookers. 🙄

Quoting Anonymous 1: My husband borrowed $5k from his sister and didn’t tell me. I feel angry and betrayed that he would do this without talking to me about it since it’s our money and we have no way of paying it back. We both work and now I’m super stressed. I haven’t confronted him about it yet.

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