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Dh is jealous

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Because my ex comes over and helps me out with the kids while he's gone working. He takes us to appointments, grocery shopping, and take our kids to and from school. We're saving for another vehicle. He eben watches tbem so I can sleep for a couple hours during the day.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:32 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 8 on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:53 PM
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No. My husband does all he can for his ex wife. She’s happily married. She and her husband do all they can for us as well
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:55 PM
What is wrong with my ex being around my kids with dh?

Quoting sheramom4:

He should take your kids with him. As in out of the house and not with you unless there is some sort of occasion. BUT if you have kids with your husband then those kids shouldn't be with your ex at all unless your DH is 100% okay with it. He shouldn't be watching them or otherwise hanging out with them on a daily basis. 

Call a friend or family member if you need that much help. Meeting at the park is one thing, having your ex over to play man of the house is another. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:56 PM
I'm not cheating though

Quoting Anonymous 7: Of course it’s no biggie to you. You are the one getting your cake and eating it too. Cheaters always cheat.


Quoting Anonymous 1: It's no biggie to me

Quoting Chris030406: I wouldn't be thrilled either.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:56 PM
Well your dh is home at night, right? So I guess the ex wouldn't be with you then. Lol!
How about you work part time, them you can save much faster and buy a car. Then you won't need to rely on the ex.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Not all day. He works night. I dont work.

Quoting Anonymous 4: So be hangs with you all day? I can see him picking up and dropping off for school. He does not need to go shopping with you, appts, or staying at your house when you nap. Does he not work? Do you not work?
You don't have a car? Get a job.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:58 PM
They are different but i haven't had sex with my ex in like 5 years

Quoting cutebaby06: So which one is a better fuck?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2018 at 10:00 PM
That's a good relationship

Quoting Anonymous 8: No. My husband does all he can for his ex wife. She’s happily married. She and her husband do all they can for us as well
sheramom4
by Emerald Member on Feb. 8, 2018 at 10:00 PM


Quoting Anonymous 1: What is wrong with my ex being around my kids with dh?
Quoting sheramom4:

He should take your kids with him. As in out of the house and not with you unless there is some sort of occasion. BUT if you have kids with your husband then those kids shouldn't be with your ex at all unless your DH is 100% okay with it. He shouldn't be watching them or otherwise hanging out with them on a daily basis. 

Call a friend or family member if you need that much help. Meeting at the park is one thing, having your ex over to play man of the house is another. 

Their FATHER doesn't want him around like that. Your relationship is crossing the line from friendly exes into him playing daddy to the kids with your husband. 

And if you need a two hour nap every day it is time to see a doctor. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 9 on Feb. 8, 2018 at 10:01 PM
Does he watch them when you take spelling classes too?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Because my ex comes over and helps me out with the kids while he's gone working. He takes us to appointments, grocery shopping, and take our kids to and from school. We're saving for another vehicle. He eben watches tbem so I can sleep for a couple hours during the day.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 10 on Feb. 8, 2018 at 10:02 PM
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I agree with the opposing party.
Think about it, if DH is telling you he doesn’t care, it could mean he’s testing the waters with how you act or do. Also, the kids would think they have two dads and a mom as a threesome parent role. Who do you respect more? DH or EX? Doesn’t the DH even have a voice? What about his thoughts? Having kids is a big responsibility. If you and DH needs to plan out a way to transport kids to and from locations, do it. Food shopping? Plan it for a weekend where family goes together *excluding EX*. Look around you. The community sees differently than you actually speak.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2018 at 10:02 PM
No he isn't

Quoting Anonymous 4: Well your dh is home at night, right? So I guess the ex wouldn't be with you then. Lol!
How about you work part time, them you can save much faster and buy a car. Then you won't need to rely on the ex.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Not all day. He works night. I dont work.

Quoting Anonymous 4: So be hangs with you all day? I can see him picking up and dropping off for school. He does not need to go shopping with you, appts, or staying at your house when you nap. Does he not work? Do you not work?
You don't have a car? Get a job.
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