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Dh is jealous

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Because my ex comes over and helps me out with the kids while he's gone working. He takes us to appointments, grocery shopping, and take our kids to and from school. We're saving for another vehicle. He eben watches tbem so I can sleep for a couple hours during the day.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2018 at 9:32 PM
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merriemoe
by on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:04 PM
Actually I think this is fake. Yes a concur. Troll
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:09 PM
Lol he's helping me. I see no issue with that

Quoting Anonymous 31: I can understand why your dh is upset. You got another man pretending to be your dh and it is an ex at that. So you not see a problem with this picture?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:10 PM
Lol ok whatever

Quoting merriemoe: Your loyalty should be with your husband.
And you know it
You’re very selfish and cruel to boot.
You shouldn’t have married him if you won’t cherish him.
As he’s working hard so you can stay home and have fun with your ex. Shame on you b

Quoting Anonymous 1: I don't get the issue. Dh knew from the beginning my ex and I were close and he'll always help me. He should have thought of that before marrying and having kids with me

Quoting merriemoe: You’re a piece of work. I hope he divorces you.


Quoting Anonymous 1: Im not a lousy wife. He knew from the beginning that my ex and I were close, that he will always help me. I refuse to change for any man

Quoting merriemoe: Yeah that�s what you think. He�ll
Get fed up at your disrespect eventually. You�re being a lousy wife frankly.
Quoting Anonymous 1: He won't divorce
Quoting merriemoe: I think you�re going to end up divorced if you keep on this path. I wouldn�t tolerate this. It�s innapropriate abd I don�t believe that you don�t really get it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:11 PM
Lol troll for what?

Quoting merriemoe: Actually I think this is fake. Yes a concur. Troll
Anonymous
by Anonymous 32 on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:15 PM
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So you're one of those women who can't live without a man around you at all times.  Sad and gross.  Hopefully your husband gets some self esteem and drops you.  In court hanging out with your ex all the time won't look good for you.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2018 at 1:51 PM
There is nothing wrong or illegal with this

Quoting Anonymous 32:

So you're one of those women who can't live without a man around you at all times.  Sad and gross.  Hopefully your husband gets some self esteem and drops you.  In court hanging out with your ex all the time won't look good for you.

merriemoe
by on Feb. 9, 2018 at 2:49 PM
If this isn’t fake why do you have such contempt for your husband?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 33 on Feb. 9, 2018 at 3:53 PM
If a mom said this about her exs wife the mother would be told she is wrong and dad can decide who is around his kids.

Mom would be told she had no say.

Marriage and divorce shouldn't change the goalposts. Do parents decide or not who their kids are around

Quoting sheramom4:

Quoting Anonymous 1: What is wrong with my ex being around my kids with dh?

Quoting sheramom4:

He should take your kids with him. As in out of the house and not with you unless there is some sort of occasion. BUT if you have kids with your husband then those kids shouldn't be with your ex at all unless your DH is 100% okay with it. He shouldn't be watching them or otherwise hanging out with them on a daily basis. 

Call a friend or family member if you need that much help. Meeting at the park is one thing, having your ex over to play man of the house is another. 

Their FATHER doesn't want him around like that. Your relationship is crossing the line from friendly exes into him playing daddy to the kids with your husband. 

And if you need a two hour nap every day it is time to see a doctor. 

Valentina327
by Silver Member on Feb. 9, 2018 at 5:11 PM
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Yeah...you really see no issue?

Reverse it...what would your thoughts be if your current husband ex was doing all of the hanging around?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 34 on Feb. 9, 2018 at 5:14 PM
Would you like it if his ex came over all all the time while you were gone?
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