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How long did you wait to have sex?

Posted by Anonymous

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After meeting your SO? Was sex ever brought up before then? Did he ever ask or suggest a situation in which you turned him down? Did you flat out say no? Did you TELL him you wanted to wait or did he just follow your lead? Were you ever alone and watching a movie or something where he tried?

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:43 PM

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Melissa_4

Navy Mom on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:44 PM

After meeting him? It was about two and a half years. After we started dating, about 3-4 months. We were over 18.

Dzyre1115

Desiree` on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:45 PM

Four hours?

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by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:45 PM

We met online, had sex a couple of hours after meeting in person.

by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:46 PM

Three days unless you count oral, then it was two days lol. Yeah it was talked about day one.

by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:46 PM

Dang girl. 😆

Quoting Dzyre1115: Four hours?

by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:46 PM

I’m still waiting.

Quoting Anonymous 1: After meeting your SO? Was sex ever brought up before then? Did he ever ask or suggest a situation in which you turned him down? Did you flat out say no? Did you TELL him you wanted to wait or did he just follow your lead? Were you ever alone and watching a movie or something where he tried?

by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:48 PM

The next day. I was gonna smash and dash but he kept calling. I decided to keep him. 13 years and 2 kids later, here we are.

by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:51 PM

Can you answer any of the other questions?

Quoting Anonymous 5: I’m still waiting.

Quoting Anonymous 1: After meeting your SO? Was sex ever brought up before then? Did he ever ask or suggest a situation in which you turned him down? Did you flat out say no? Did you TELL him you wanted to wait or did he just follow your lead? Were you ever alone and watching a movie or something where he tried?

by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:52 PM

With my first, 9 months. With my current dh, like 2 months

by Anonymous 8 on Feb. 20, 2018 at 11:53 PM