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Wtf just happened

Anonymous
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I work full time in a high stress job.
I'm working on my masters degree.
I just bought a new home.
I have 3 kids. One in high school, one in elementary, and a baby.

My husband is a stay at home dad.

When I come home, he usually goes outside for a break.

I play with the baby, or at the least keep any eye on her. Fix snacks for the kids. Do laundry. You get the picture.

I had a really rough day at work. Told my dh about it. He ended up picking a fight with me.

Apparently I always complain when I get home, and he's not happy. That's what he said as a stormed out "I'm not happy". This came from left field.

I have lots of ideas of what he and I need to talk about to work this out, and we will but right now I'm just like what the f@ck just happened?
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:10 PM
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:12 PM
He's had a bad day? Touched out by the baby? Feeling unappreciated by you?
Curlymom234
by Flamingo lady on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:12 PM
Does he have a history of just blowing up like that?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:13 PM

He sounds like a spoiled, entitled brat.

But, you should still try to communicate and find out what's really under his skin. Is he actually not happy, overall, or just having a shitty day? We all make mistakes and have mouth diarrhea when it's been a stressful day. Communication is your next best step. Best of luck to you.

Elle.tea.22
by Emerald Member on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:15 PM
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Then he should get a job and pay all the bills. Until then, he needs to pull his weight and if running the house is it, then he should do so.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:26 PM
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If you complain often, I get it.  These comments would be different if the roles were switched.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:27 PM

GET RID OF THE HUSBAND, HIRE A NANNY....

PROBLEM SOLVED

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:28 PM
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This. I stay at home, and can understand.

Quoting Danesmommy1: He's had a bad day? Touched out by the baby? Feeling unappreciated by you?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:29 PM
Yep. Everyone here is going to just blame him and insult his masculinity.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

If you complain often, I get it.  These comments would be different if the roles were switched.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:30 PM
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I get it. He's home all day and would love some adult conversation and how was your day. He hears complaining instead. It sounds like you do it a lot without realizing it. It all boiled over today.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 21, 2018 at 7:30 PM
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He sounds like a stay at home parent who has had a rough day and doesn’t want to listen to their spouse complain.
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