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heart broken many ways

Posted by on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:03 PM
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my dh has 5 kids. all grown. each kid he has treats him like....well....better than a dog. grandkids ain't no better. it hurts me so badly to see them treat their dad the way they do.  his oldest daughter told him that if he was dead, they would be set in life. I couldn't believe she said that, but she did. youngest daughter told him ...forget about me, loose my number, you are not my dad, i am not your daughter. she turned around and left. has not talked to him since. his 2 boys ( in their 40's) refuses to work, won't clean. won't do anything. youngest son lives with us. when he got out of jail, he gave our address and now the courts has him here for 4 more years. he collects ssi, blows the check in 1 day (he does pay rent)....these kids make me so darn mad. the thing is my dh is 14 years older than i am. dh oldest daughter is 7 years younger than me. me...age don't matter...the way we met is a fairy tell....tell yall some day....but his kids is really basically killing him. i feel like i have no say so when it comes to his kids....i just don't know what to do.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:05 PM
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You sound very uneducated and naive.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:05 PM
You don't have a say, so dont. Just support him. What happened that his kids don't want a relationship with him?
corticosteroid
by on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:05 PM
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I feel like there’s a lot missing from this story...

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:06 PM
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Sounds like he was a really shitty father if all of his kids are like that.
peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:06 PM
When 4 adult children don't talk to a parent there is always more to the story
Mrs.ChuckBass
by Platinum Member on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:06 PM
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oo00oo000ooooohhhhhh............that sounds dreadful.

welcome to cafemom

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:08 PM
We treat dogs really well in my family, so...
debra-ruth
by Member on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:09 PM


Quoting Anonymous 1: You sound very uneducated and naive.

please explain this to me...my dh tells me that i am naive all the time...all i know is what i see and hear

Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:10 PM
Sometimes in life we reap what we sow.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 25, 2018 at 12:10 PM
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When all four kids don't speak to their parent, there is a parenting issue. He obviously was/is a crappy father.

Quoting debra-ruth:

Quoting Anonymous 1: You sound very uneducated and naive.

please explain this to me...my dh tells me that i am naive all the time...all i know is what i see and hear

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