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Paying back a favor that wasn’t asked for

Posted by on Mar. 12, 2018 at 6:57 PM
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I’ve been in the hospital the better part of the last two weeks and now that I’m home I’m on a strict diet and taking it easy.
My sister came over with a couple bags of groceries from aldi, she was so proud it was only $35. And then said I can pay her back later. 1- I didn’t ask for it, my dh can shop for us. 2- most of what she bought we don’t eat. Canned pasta, hamburger helper, little red apples.
Should I just give her the $35 and appreciate the effort? Give her back the things we don’t eat and ask her to take it off the bill?
$35 isn’t a huge deal for either of us, it just bugs me to pay for something I didn’t need, want or ask for. I do know my sister was trying to be helpful.
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Danesmommy1
by Grammar Enthusiast on Mar. 12, 2018 at 6:59 PM
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She meant well, so I'd just give her $35.

I'd also be sure to tell her that DH has a handle on things, so she won't need to shop for us again.
Why-Not
by Gold Member on Mar. 12, 2018 at 6:59 PM
I’d pay the $35 only because it’s not worth fighting over.
vegaswife2011
by LMAO on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:00 PM
Just pay her. Hope you’re feeling better.
cutebaby06
by Ruby Member on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:00 PM

I would take it, food is food.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:02 PM
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I would probably just pay her to avoid an issue & donate the food.
Fat.Bottom.Girl
by Platinum Member on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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I'd just give her the $35 and make it clear that you don't need any more "help" with groceries.
PinkButterfly66
by Diamond Member on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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She's expecting you to pay her back?  Shit, I'd tell her to take her groceries home with her then, I don't need them.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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Seriously, youre a snob.
redbottoms
by Ruby Member on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:04 PM
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I would tell her to take it all back if you don't want or need it. A favor is her just giving you that for free. Or you giving her a list and she buys it and then you pay her back. Just showing up and then asking for money is not a favor.
mmm2015
by Eldouchedegrande on Mar. 12, 2018 at 7:06 PM

im sorry to hear you were not doing well are you going to be okay?

just give her 35 dollars


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