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Still heartbroken..

Anonymous
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Bf of 2.5 years told me a week ago he needed time to be single. He really isn't seeing anyone else. He is just playing video games constantly. We had a great relationship, he said i didn't do anything wrong..he has just been in a relationship his whole adult life and needs time to himself. The feelings of anxiety and pain I thought would get better but it still hurts so bad.


He said he is forcing himself to not care.
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:22 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:23 AM
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That's more than just needing "time;" Sorry, OP.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:23 AM
:/

Quoting Anonymous 2: That's more than just needing "time;" Sorry, OP.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:24 AM

How old are you guys? 

Sounds like he is being honest with you. After 2 and a half years I would insist on the relationship moving forward (marriage) or ending. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:24 AM
Can you explain? I feel my perspective is very clouded

Quoting Anonymous 2: That's more than just needing "time;" Sorry, OP.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:24 AM
28 and 31.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

How old are you guys? 

Sounds like he is being honest with you. After 2 and a half years I would insist on the relationship moving forward (marriage) or ending. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:27 AM

Were you talking about next steps? How do you know he plays video games all day? Do you have kid(s) together? 

Quoting Anonymous 1: 28 and 31.
Quoting Anonymous 3:

How old are you guys? 

Sounds like he is being honest with you. After 2 and a half years I would insist on the relationship moving forward (marriage) or ending. 


Valentina327
by Silver Member on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:27 AM
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I'll translate for you - He wants to go sleep around. He just wasn't crass enough to say that.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:27 AM
Have you ever needed a break from your bestie? Did you need a break from the bf?

I've never needed "time" from the people I love. A "me" day, sure...but not ever to the point of severing bonds n shit.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Can you explain? I feel my perspective is very clouded

Quoting Anonymous 2: That's more than just needing "time;" Sorry, OP.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:28 AM
We had talked about marriage and he didn't want to be married again. We live together until I move out. He has 2 i have 1, none together.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

Were you talking about next steps? How do you know he plays video games all day? Do you have kid(s) together? 

Quoting Anonymous 1: 28 and 31.

Quoting Anonymous 3:

How old are you guys? 

Sounds like he is being honest with you. After 2 and a half years I would insist on the relationship moving forward (marriage) or ending. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Mar. 19, 2018 at 8:29 AM
He doesn't have an interest in anyone else he said.

Quoting Valentina327: I'll translate for you - He wants to go sleep around. He just wasn't crass enough to say that.
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