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Relationship advice needed

Anonymous
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So dh told me a lie for 3 years. Im more upset over the lie bc id confronted him and asked him about it. Its caused many fights.
So how do I get over it to even be able to attempt to rebuild the trust?
Posted by Anonymous on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:16 AM
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pumpkinheart
by Bronze Member on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:17 AM
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More info needed. What did he lie about? Explain.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:19 AM
Kissing another female. And he knows I dont see kissing as cheating so idk why he even hid it and lied.

Quoting pumpkinheart: More info needed. What did he lie about? Explain.
quinnsmom715
by Emerald Member on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:21 AM
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yeah..kissing IS cheating..

Quoting Anonymous 1: Kissing another female. And he knows I dont see kissing as cheating so idk why he even hid it and lied.
Quoting pumpkinheart: More info needed. What did he lie about? Explain.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:23 AM
Leave his nasty ass before get something that doesn't wash off!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:23 AM
Each person gets to choose their own boundries in a relationship. &it's not even about what he did but him lying.

Quoting quinnsmom715:

yeah..kissing IS cheating..

Quoting Anonymous 1: Kissing another female. And he knows I dont see kissing as cheating so idk why he even hid it and lied.

Quoting pumpkinheart: More info needed. What did he lie about? Explain.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:23 AM
Um it was kissing not sex lmao.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Leave his nasty ass before get something that doesn't wash off!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:26 AM
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Your ignorance is astounding.

Herpes can be passed by kissing.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Um it was kissing not sex lmao.
Quoting Anonymous 2: Leave his nasty ass before get something that doesn't wash off!
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:27 AM
True. Ya i dont see it happening again. He almost lost me&his kids bc of the situation so.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Your ignorance is astounding.

Herpes can be past by kissing.

Quoting Anonymous 1: Um it was kissing not sex lmao.

Quoting Anonymous 2: Leave his nasty ass before get something that doesn't wash off!
Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:27 AM

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pumpkinheart
by Bronze Member on Apr. 21, 2018 at 8:28 AM
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Maybe he lied bc he didn't think you would be ok with him kissing some one else, even though you say it wouldn't bother you. Because really, it would bother most people.

He came clean and told you. Tell him that you expect total honesty from now on. And that you will be the same with him.

This really is your problem, not his. You're going to have to decide if you can let it go, or not. Has he lied about anything else? Done anything else to make you doubt him?

Quoting Anonymous 1: Kissing another female. And he knows I dont see kissing as cheating so idk why he even hid it and lied.

Quoting pumpkinheart: More info needed. What did he lie about? Explain.
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