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male or female?

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 12:51 PM
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Do you prefer a male or female OB/gyn?

I have always had males. I prefer male everything:teachers, doctors, landscapers, chefs.

I don't know why. Maybe because I have always had such strong men in my life, I am just more comfortable with them.
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stephiebugg
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 12:56 PM
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I have had both males and females. I'm okay with either. There is a female Ob/Gyn and two males in the office I go to and it's somewhat random who I see. I'm not fussy, especially if I'm giving birth- LOL Just get the baby out, okay? LOL When I had DD1 it was the first time I had met one of the doctors. A weird time for an introduction, dontcha think? LOL 
My regular doc is a female. I like her a lot. I typically just take who I get, I'm not particular about it. 
My MIL told me once she had a female Gyn and she refered to my MIL's um... parts... as her vajayjay. She was totally appalled. Really? You're a professional and you can't say vagina? My MIL got a new dr. LOL I would too, that's so weird. I dont really want to have a friend poking around down there, just a doctor, thanks.  

Rain2Rinse
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 12:58 PM
Lmao!!

Quoting stephiebugg:

I have had both males and females. I'm okay with either. There is a female Ob/Gyn and two males in the office I go to and it's somewhat random who I see. I'm not fussy, especially if I'm giving birth- LOL Just get the baby out, okay? LOL When I had DD1 it was the first time I had met one of the doctors. A weird time for an introduction, dontcha think? LOL 
My regular doc is a female. I like her a lot. I typically just take who I get, I'm not particular about it. 
My MIL told me once she had a female Gyn and she refered to my MIL's um... parts... as her vajayjay. She was totally appalled. Really? You're a professional and you can't say vagina? My MIL got a new dr. LOL I would too, that's so weird. I dont really want to have a friend poking around down there, just a doctor, thanks.  

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Karissa_ruiz
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 12:58 PM
I prefer female, just because I feel more comfortable. Plus my sister had a male and she said he was far too rough and that was pretty much all it took.
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phoebe81
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 12:59 PM

I've had both. When I was pregnant with my first child, I had a female midwife but since that resulted in a c-section, I was required to undergo a planned c-section with my second which meant I was forced to be under the care of an OB-GYN. I went to the same surgeon that did my first c-section because he was really great and reasurring.

mysonsmom99
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 1:00 PM

I find Males ob/gyn are more gentle but I can't stand going to a male doctor.

stephiebugg
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 1:00 PM
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So true, I would really expect a level of professionalism when you're um, checking out downtown for me!!! 
It'd be like going to a doctor for an injury on your head and them calling it your "domepiece" or "noggin" or "noodle" the whole time. PLEASE!  

Rain2Rinse
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 1:03 PM
I am waiting to be seen right now. The wait list for this doctor to accept you as a patient.... Insanity. My mil used him though, and said he is amazing
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Mama2lilGarrett
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:27 PM
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 I prefer a midwife.

sleepy_in_va
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:32 PM

I've always had males. Though I sometimes wonder if a female would actually take me seriously whenever I have a question and not just get told, "Oh it's because you're pregnant" or crap like that...it annoys me.

MommaNuney
by Nancy on Feb. 15, 2012 at 10:51 PM
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I had male family practice doctor up until I was pregnant with Makenzie...had him since I was 19 & he retired from OB and birthing.
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