I need advice on how to deal with an annoying neighbor girl.......
When they play outside, my husband and I are always out there with them. They are little kids and anything can happen to them.This little girl is out of control bad. She is wild, screams in the faces of our dogs, drive her little car with my son in it like a crazy person, throws toys, and destroys our landscaping by driving her toy ride-on cars through our yard. To make matters worse, she has now taken it upon herself to come over and ring our doorbell to get my son to come out and play. When I tell her no he can't play because he is eating, taking a bath, or sleeping, she gets mad and starts to go into hysterics on my front porch. She invites herself to dinner every night and I make her ask her parents (who always say "no") but then the she pouts and cries.
I really don't want my son playing with this little girl. I tell her know whenever I can, but she comes over when we are outside playing and starts playing with us. She has destroyed my sons playroom in the 5 seconds I left them alone to go to the next room to get something.
Would it be wrong to send her home everytime she comes over? What do I do when we are outside and she comes over?