My mother was born two months before country singer Loretta Lynn and, like Loretta, married young and had a baby on her hip by the time she was 17; Loretta shortly after her 14th birthday. Loretta had 4 before she left her teen years behind and eventually had 2 more after that for a total of 6 children. Both women found a way to work outside their homes, and neither was comfortable being barefoot and pregnant. Mom was born in the great state of Kansas and Loretta, in Butcher Hollow, Kentucky. Two country women born at a time when birth control was not talked about and certainly not debated.
But a revolution was happening. In 1960, women were introduced to the Pill. This little invention made it possible for women to step out of the house and pursue careers beyond homemakingâif they so desired. Neither Loretta or my mother ever condemned homemakers or the extremely challenging career of raising and running a familyâbut both sought something else. The Pill gave them control over their future by giving them control over their bodies.
Forty years ago, in 1972, Loretta Lynn recorded a song entitled: THE PILL. It told her story. It told my motherâs story. It told millions of womenâs stories. The song was banned on numerous stations throughout the South and was not officially released until 1975. The song took on a life of its own and became the topic of many a Sunday service. When released, it topped the Country and Western chart at #5 and became one of Lorettaâs signature tunes.
In an interview for Playgirl Magazine, Lynn recounted how she had been congratulated after the songâs success by a number of rural physicians, telling her how âThe Pillâ had done more to highlight the availability of birth control in isolated, rural areas, than all the literature theyâd released.
2012: The Catholic Bishops, the GOP, the Obama Administration and just about everyone is debating contraception. Discussions on the Pill have taken on a life of their own this past month. Congress is holding hearings about women and their reproductive health rights with the Pill taking center stage. If one didnât know better, they would think Ms. Lynn wrote this as an anthem to the discourse taking place throughout the nationâtoday. Instead, we celebrate the 40th anniversary of her song and the road traveled by millions of women around the worldâpacking their contraception packets of their Pills.
The Pill (lyrics and video): (Songwriters: Lorene Allen, T D Bayless, Don Mchan)
You wined me and dined me
When I was your girl
Promised if Iâd be your wife
Youâd show me the worldBut all Iâve seen of this old world
Is a bed and a doctor bill
Iâm tearinâ down your brooder house
âCause now Iâve got the pill.All these years Iâve stayed at home
While you had all your fun
And every year thatâs gone by
Another babyâs come.Thereâs a gonna be some changes made
Right here on nursery hill
Youâve set this chicken your last time
âCause now Iâve got the pill.This old maternity dress Iâve got
Is goinâ in the garbage
The clothes Iâm wearinâ from now on
Wonât take up so much yardage.Miniskirts, hot pants
And a few little fancy frills
Yeah, Iâm makinâ up for all those years
Since Iâve got the pill.Iâm tired of all your crowinâ
How you and your hens play
While holdinâ a couple in my arms
Anotherâs on the way.This chickenâs done tore up her nest
And Iâm ready to make a deal
And ya canât afford to turn it down
âCause you know Iâve got the pill.This incubator is overused
Because youâve kept it filled
The feelinâ good comes easy now
Since Iâve got the pill.Itâs gettinâ dark itâs roostinâ time
Tonightâs too good to be real
Oh, but daddy donât you worry none
âCause mamaâs got the pill.Oh, daddy donât you worry noneâCause mamaâs got the pillâŚ
Loretta and my momâtwo country girls who stood up and said, âthis is my body!â And to those who are now trying to roll back the clock, hereâs something to think about:
âJust how far out of the mainstream is the GOP as they fight the evils of contraception?
Theyâre to the right of a white Christian woman from eastern Kentucky in 1972.â





- nanaofsix531
on Feb. 20, 2012 at 9:53 PM