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OT: Screen name changes....

Jambo4
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Some times you just need to send little reminders to people that they need to behave.
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Posted by on May. 22, 2012 at 4:14 PM
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Question: Have you ever changed your screen name?

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yes, one time

yes, many times


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I'm baffled...

I've been at CM for 6+ years... never changed my sn...

What's up with that?  I keep hearing of people changing their sn.  One moderator here left a chatterbox message telling me of her changed sn the other day.  Another post mentioned a changed sn.

Is it for hiding and coming in as a "fresh" person?  Is it because you got kicked off of CM so you are reinventing yourself?  Is it because someone had a big ol crush on you and kept following you around?

Oh.. I'll put a poll... but I would love some feedback.  This concept is strange to me.

Posted by on May. 22, 2012 at 4:14 PM
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shimamab
by on May. 22, 2012 at 4:27 PM
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Changed once because it was my first and last name originally. Had a friend irl point out that, unlike Facebook, the peeps on here are strangers so I may not want all my info out there. So I also set all my profile to private, dont put pics of my kids up, and I don't "friend" anyone.
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JakeandEmmasMom
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:30 PM
Nope. I've never had a reason to change.
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JakeandEmmasMom
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:31 PM
I take that back. I actually do have a reason to -- I'm now Jake, Emma, and Caitlin's mom, but I haven't changed. I guess I just didn't think of it. It seems like a pain to refriend and rejoin groups.
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Some times you just need to send little reminders to people that they need to behave.
Today at 1:55 PM
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:33 PM
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Quoting JakeandEmmasMom:

Nope. I've never had a reason to change.

See.. that's how I feel.

If I conduct myself like I would in real life then I should feel the need to go hide myself or reinvent myself.  (I can't say I do wonderful all the time.. yesterday and today have not been my greatest moments online.. can I blame PMS or my DH "dinging" (as he called it) DENTING our door in on our car!)  

Ooh.. now I am all mad again... lol.. I think I'll go garden...

Jambo4
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Some times you just need to send little reminders to people that they need to behave.
Today at 1:55 PM
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:35 PM


Quoting JakeandEmmasMom:

I take that back. I actually do have a reason to -- I'm now Jake, Emma, and Caitlin's mom, but I haven't changed. I guess I just didn't think of it. It seems like a pain to refriend and rejoin groups.

very true.

I wonder why cm didn't make that feature available when they made CM?  I know that before they moved us over here from Clubmom, you could change your screen name at will.. update it when you became a mom of more kids.  You didn't have to contact any Clubmom team person to do it.  It automatically changed ever past older posts.  It was nice.

bluerooffarm
by Silver Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:38 PM
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 Nope, but after a reaction for one of my posts a couple months ago (?) I can see why some may.  Some people on here have way too much time on their hands and way too long of memories.  Now I know not to respond to a few people, but if I weren't such a quick study wink miniI can see how it could get out of hand.  pming is out of line for attack purposes, IMO.  Only positive stuff should go in pm.  anything else is an atack and some here are great at it.

Margroc24
by Bronze Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:38 PM

I left this site - put off by all the melodrama - and cancelled my account. Then I changed my mind and came back. They system wouldn't allow me to use my old name - which was margroc - so I had to come up with a new one. It's now margroc24. It's definitely not because I wanted to hide my identity as some members have claimed. I would hope if I chose to be devious I'd be a bit smarter than just adding 2 numbers to the end of my original name.

When certain people make references to screen names, I just tune them out. They are just trying to instigate trouble for their own amusement.

I just don't have the heart to deal with that level of immaturity anymore. Which is why I very rarely post in this group anymore.

cbk_mom3
by on May. 22, 2012 at 4:40 PM

I left a couple years ago. Got the itch, and came back. That's the only time I've changed my sn, because I had cancelled my old account.

Jambo4
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Some times you just need to send little reminders to people that they need to behave.
Today at 1:55 PM
by Gold Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:40 PM


Quoting Margroc24:

I left this site - put off by all the melodrama - and cancelled my account. Then I changed my mind and came back. They system wouldn't allow me to use my old name - which was margroc - so I had to come up with a new one. It's now margroc24. It's definitely not because I wanted to hide my identity as some members have claimed. I would hope if I chose to be devious I'd be a bit smarter than just adding 2 numbers to the end of my original name.

LOL.. very true.

crazymommy30
by Member on May. 22, 2012 at 4:41 PM

I have been on CM for 3.5 years.

I have never changed my name, had a "stalker", or even gotten any nasty pms or chatterbox messages.

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