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BF not happy with your body!

Posted by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:17 PM
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So I was recently dumped because he was not attracted to me and has never dated a woman who was the same weight or bigger. I was a little shocked, when he told me that and that he felt like our relationship was more like friends with benefits then a series relationship. We dated for 4 months and are kids have grown really close. But, what  gets me is he still wants to remain friends or in his term "family" cause thats how he looks at us. Has this happened to anyone before? And how should I take this, should I not be friends at all or just let ar efriendship stay and move on?

Posted by on Jun. 19, 2012 at 1:17 PM
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Crissy9843
by Head Admin on Jun. 21, 2012 at 11:27 AM
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 I say move on! If he doesnt love you for you, take you how you are than it isnt meant to be! Its upsetting but if your weight has to be a issue you deal with on YOUR own and NOt someone telling you thats is the breaker.

dollysvlog
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:25 AM

oh wow... I had an ex pull those same lines... (without a child in the situation)but he dumped me while doing the deed... I say good riddance and to move on...

kokyuhomama
by on Jun. 30, 2012 at 8:42 AM

This guy sounds so immature!  Why waste your time?  Also, maybe it would be better for your children in the future if you dated independently of them?  This will solve the isse of them becoming attached to someone who might not be sticking around.  

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