The Secret & LOA ?

Hmmm, sounds like you are on track.

What is it exactly that you feel like you're missing??

I've been "doing" this for about a year also, and I see improvements over where I started from.

I miss Aim too....but I shall say that our group owner, Donna, is just wonderful!! Have you spoken with her?? or PM'd her ?? 

As for suggestions on things...read Zero Limits - IMO a very helpful and intense book. You can heal your life (the dvd) and the book by Louise Hay are great also. I haven't read much of Abraham, but I know there are youtube videos that they put out there for people to watch and learn from.

If you need extra help with anything, please don't hesitate to PM Donna or I.

Hope this helps, and Donna should be back on soon.

We love you ♥

I was thinking the same thing as Debi. "What is it you feel like you're missing?"

If you've been doing all the positive thinking and you're not seeing evidence of a shift in your vibration then you could be holding on to some limiting beliefs surrounding the areas of home owning and abundace. If that is a possibility, I suggest that you BRIEFLY examine it. JUST long enough to identify it. Once you've identified a limiting belief then you can recognize it when it comes up. When you can recognize it in the background of your consciousness then you can perceive it for what it is - a past limiting belief. If there are limiting beliefs lingering about in our thoughts and we don't identify them then they're always going to be there influencing the vibrations we're sending.

If you feel that you've done all the necessary work on that, then begin putting your attention on the results that WANT to experience. You shared that you're still renting a home and living paycheck to paycheck. So if what you want is to own a home and experience financial freedom, then begin to embody the feeling of that. What is the feeling that you get when you think about being a home owner? What does financial freedom feel like to you? Exciting? Relieving? Empowered? Allow yourself to put your full focus on the positive feelings that come when you imagine and daydream about those two things that you say you want. Also, keep a log of all the abundance you attract on a daily basis - free coupons, gifts, something you bought that was on sale, a friend buying you lunch, etc. When you feel surrounded with abundance, then you will attract more of it.

Lots of love,
Sara E.

I think I figured it out.  I thnk, even surrounded by people, I am lonely.  I don't know why.  I love my kids, I am reasonably happily married, I love my job and friends...but I still feel... kind of alone.

So, now what?

Thanks, Sisters.

I'm gonna have to think on this one......nothing comes to mind right off the top of my head.

Quoting TINKFAIRYGIRL:

I think I figured it out.  I thnk, even surrounded by people, I am lonely.  I don't know why.  I love my kids, I am reasonably happily married, I love my job and friends...but I still feel... kind of alone.

So, now what?

Thanks, Sisters.

Quoting TINKFAIRYGIRL:

So, now what?

I think I know what you're describing. I've felt that in the past. Like I knew there was pain within me, but couldn't really understand why or where it was coming from, because everything existing in my life and outside of me was perfectly in place. Eventually, after some time being with it, I was fed up with being with it. LOL. Finally, I started looking at it, and what I realized about myself was that I was holding onto a lot of resentment that I thought I had already let go of. Resentment towards family, friends, myself, etc.

If you're feeling alone even amidst people and circumstances you Love, then there has to be some part of you that's screaming for attention. As I'm sure you know, true happiness isn't caused by anything outside of ourselves. So if you're noticing that your desires are in place and you have genuine gratitude, but there's still something within you out of alignment...Sometimes this is our Souls' (or whatever you want to name it) way of giving us a wake up call, kind of saying, "Um excuse me!? Yes YOU! I need you to take care of me and acknowledge me! I'm ready to heal when you are!" Something inside you is definitely craving nurturing and healing of some kind. And of course, you're the only one who can discern the what and why of that. I can't count how many times I thought that I had thoroughly healed something and then, naturally, I attract the perfect trigger, giving me an opportunity to look at it again. Kind of like the Universe saying, "Are you sure? Let's see if that's so." Every experience that we name negative or not preferable or disconnected is an opportunity for healing. The moment we say or think that we've healed something, is the moment we invite opportunities to demonstrate it.

So now what?  - Start feeling. Perhaps practice getting into your body and feeling your chakras. This isn't something you have to set aside time and space for. In fact, it's much more beneficial to practice it when you find yourself in circumstances feeling that aloneness. The more often we practice really feeling, the more our lives become an ongoing meditation, which is kind of what consciousness is all about. You can try this as you go about your day. Practice putting your attention on your neck/shoulder and heart areas. What physical sensations do you feel? What thoughts are you having? If you don't feel anything the first, second or third time, that is ok. Make it an ongoing practice as you go about your day. Allow yourself to just feel - no matter where you are or what you happen to be doing.

We're With You, Sweet Sister!!
Sara E.

Feeling alone when with others says to me that your inner self.. the real you... smile.. is asking for your attention.

What are you doing for you?  Are you spending time growing and increasing in wisdom, exercising your intuition?  Getting in touch with and getting to really know YOU is very important.

Your thoughts are what give you the "feeling" of being alone.  What are these thoughts, change them about to reflect what it is you really desire to experience.

Each morning I go through a mini meditation.. similar to this.

I give myself permission to be loving and be loved.

I give myself permission to be respectful and respected.

I give myself permission to be a friend and be friendly.

I give myself permission to be surrounded by loving, kind, helpful people and to be loving, kind and respected.

Write down how you wish to experience your life.  Be clear.  Now repeat until you feel it.. and live it.

The LOA is about what we feel.. we experience.  When you experience it often enough in your imagination... it comes right up to you and says, "here I am.."

I can tell you that you are never alone.  You have to know it for yourself.

Love yourself well,

Donna

PS.  We have a thread.. what this group offers.  Along with all the many wonderful, books etc on the market I offer several ebooks, meditations, classes and one on one coaching.  Email me for information.