Life Coach Support Getting clear staying clear Staying on Track

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Oct. 20, 2008 at 8:08 AM

• How do I know what it is that I really want?

  You use the contrast all around you.  Whatever you are experiencing that is not wanted, flip that around to what it reveals to you that is desired.

  Lack of money reveals a desire for ease of life, clothes, home,car,furniture, travel, donations.

  Whatever you are experiencing that you are not thrilled with, look at it as a gift.  It is showing you your heart's desire.

  Money is not always exactly what is wanted.  It's most often the things we want to exchange money for.

  By getting clear about what it is that you desire to experience, writing it down, making a vision board.. opens the windows and doors to receive it.

  Love yourself well,

  Donna
  

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  • pinkangelpa
  on Oct. 20, 2008 at 9:27 AM

• well, I can certainly say that's true :)

  My husband's experience of following his heart to leave Hawaii to come home has been a contrast to learn from. He learned that family is important to him, money isn't everything, being treated like crap from your employer and making life miserable isn't what he wants from life.

  Altho he hasn't found the right thing as of this minute, it could be today, or tomarrow. His level or pursuit is amazing, that is something I see. I have also learned that I really love him more than I thought, and I want him home so we can have a more traditional family life.

  Thanks for bringing this up, love ya!♥

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Oct. 21, 2008 at 8:35 AM

• What wonderful gifts you have received already, more awareness of your love, your desire for a family that's home together.

  There are always gifts in every situation.  We just have to open our eyes and our hearts to see them.

  I am always amazed at the treasures I discover inside each and every day, every situation.

  Stay aware of the blessings,

  Donna
  

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Nov. 13, 2008 at 8:45 AM

• Problem or opportunity?

  The way you look at things indicates your leaning.  How are you creating?  With what energy do you create and attract your experiences?

  Do you see things as problems or opportunity?

  Let's take a look at the difference.

  People who see problems and work hard to fix them, solve them, continue creating more "problems" to deal with.  It's like a game that never ends.

  Those who see opportunities for change, excitement, new ways of doing things not only feel better and enjoy life much more, they also attract more and more opportunities to themselves.

  Some are caught up in a loop.  It seems that problems just keep coming.  They solve a few and double that amount show up.

  What to do?

  Change your thinking and feeling energy.

  If you will take a moment and look over your life you will notice that each "problem" got resolved when you got creative about it, when you looked outside what was into what could be.

  Use this type of thinking whenever something shows up in your life experience.  Thinking outside your normal box allows you to create something different and exciting.

  Things happen, interactions with others are a part of our life.  Be creative about it.  Think about exciting choices and outcomes.. then watch as your life becomes more fun and exciting.

  
  

  Love yourself well,

  Donna

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  • esper_d
  on Nov. 17, 2008 at 3:22 AM

• I can't concentrate on the outline at the moment but I'd like to get more school work done and hopefully just feel more happier in life.

  PS I emailed u

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Nov. 17, 2008 at 8:40 AM

• Feeling happy or anything else is a matter of choice.

  You choose based on what you are thinking.

  Our thoughts are the power house of creative energy.

  When finding oneself in a not so good feeling place, take note of your thoughts.  They are the energy behind your feelings.

  Change those by changing what you are thinking.

  A good and easy way to change your feelings about a particular situation is playing the wouldn't it be nice if game.

  Say you have bills and don't see how you can pay them.  Begin by saying, wouldn't it be nice if I could get online or on the phone and pay each of these.  Wouldn't that feel good?  How would I feel?  What would I do with this feeling?

  Get into the feeling aspect of the game.. it really uplifts the thinking and the feeling.

  Love yourself well,

  Donna

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Dec. 8, 2008 at 11:37 AM

• Follow Inspiration

  Today follow that gut instinct and do something really fun and out of the ordinary.

  Open you heart to something new or a new way of doing something.

  Smiles

  Donna
  

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Jan. 8, 2009 at 12:33 PM

• I made this sticky because I think it's really important.

  In order to manifest your dreams you have to be clear.

  You have to get your thoughts in order and then get your actions in order.

  Some people seem to think that just dreaming about something, feeling good for a while and pasting affirmations all over the place takes the place of doing.

  Not so!

  Doing is important.

  What would be the result of making a "to do" list that you just sat there looking at?  How much of it do you think would ever get done?  none.. lol

  This last year I have seen many changes in my own life and each of them was the result of thinking, feeling, believing, doing and receiving.

  Doing isn't the first step on the list, but it's an important one.

  We all have lots of dreams, that's natural.  We have lots of wants, that's natural too.

  A lot of people dream big and often, they talk about their dreams with anyone who will listen.

  The missing part is some doing.  Often it doesn't require a lot of doing, just following the bouncing ball of inspired action.

  Without the doing part, not much will show up.  The opportunities for doing will be there but if you don't pay attention and follow them, you stay in the dreaming stage unless you eventually get discouraged and give up.

  Don't give up, get involved in your dreams.

  What are your goals?  Start with one.

  Name it, write it down.  Fill in the details.

  Believe it.  If it doesn't feel like it's yours look for limiting beliefs working telling you that you don't deserve it,etc.  Root these out and replace them with new beliefs.

  Now watch for opportunity to "do".  Get happy about doing.  It's a joy to be involved in this state of the creation process.

  Allow, receive.  Remember all answers don't always come the way you think they should.

  Recently I was made really aware of this when after really wanting to get some work done on my house and friends didn't want to help.. someone who knows someone who knows me contacted me saying their church was starting a ministry and could they start it by helping me with the work.

  While talking with this lady I was invited to speak to young women in my area who are facing challenges.  DA DA.. two goals accomplished at once.  I had been wanting an opening to speak in my area and because I allowed a stranger in my life through the door of another goal.. both got manifested.

  Had I said no to the first, the opportunity to speak wouldn't have happened either.

  So Allow.. receive.. from every direction.

  
  

  Ok.. now let's get real about what we are working on allowing short term.

  I will start.

  I am open to five new spiritual life coaching clients.  This is how many I have slots for.  These people are interested in understanding what is holding them back, willing to work with the steps I lay out to root them out and change beliefs.

  They are excited about changes, not resisting them.  They are taking responsibility for everything in their lives or willing to.

  These five new clients will enjoy my outrageous offer introducing them to spiritual life coaching/healing sessions.

  What will I "do" to bring this about?

  Share with everyone I know about this offer to change their lives.

  Network,promote,blog articles,google,search engines

  Share with my groups, encourage present clients to tell family and friends.

  I am open to new doors and windows to get the word out.

  This is the process I will use to get five new clients in two weeks.

  Now, what  is one of your short term goals, what is your process?

  Love yourself well,

  Donna

  Spiritual life coaching/ energy healing sessions
  

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Jan. 19, 2009 at 7:45 AM

• Get on board the HOPE TRAIN

  Right now the energy of hope is all around this nation, even the whole globe.

  Are you hitching a ride?  Or are you still standing on the side of the track watching the train go by?

  If you are really ready for changes in your personal life, this is the time, this is the erergy wave to get it done.

  Make a list of what you are desiring to change.

  Get detailed.

  Hold onto hope, follow it each moment of the day.

  Dream big, do big, Be big.

  Hope is the energy that is flowing.. get in the stream and see just how far it will take you.

  Love yourself well,

  Donna

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  • SecretDesigns
  on Jan. 23, 2009 at 7:22 AM

• How important is your thought stream?

  Your thought stream is the main flow of thought that is at the core of your belief/expectation foundation.

  This constant flow of thought is what you are attracting with.  Take a listen to yourself throughout the day and tune in to what and how you are thinking about things, people, circumstances.

  You just might be amazed at what comes to the light when you check in.

  Emphasise on the positive thoughts, be aware of those that don't lead you where you want to go, laugh at them and think something more in line with how you want to create.

  
  

  Love yourself well,

  Donna
  

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