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I've posted before about probs with my So. Most stem from his drinking, alot also stem from his friendship with his cousin, A. I hate the man so much it's kind of ridiculous. In the 8 yrs I've been with So, A has been in jail more than out. I've seen the way he treats girlfriends - he's abusive and controling. He's heroin addict and alcoholic. He says he's off heroin, but the idiot doesn't know that I know what track marks look like. He acts like he thinks he's just so sexy or something but dude is early 30's looks closer to 60, and when he takes his shirt off (gag) he looks like pregnant gorilla..ugh. Kinda reminds me of a troll - the kind that live under bridges and eat goats, ya know? Well, he knows So and I have alot of probs. Because him and So are pretty tight, he knows what things are that annoy me most with So. And he plays on them. One time he was at our place (he's not usually allowed here, but he was helping So with work) and me and So were discussing plans to go out that nite sans kids. Knowing that I hate So drinking and hate bars, A chimes in with all these suggestions that all included bars. He lives above a bar, and right across the street from another more popular one too. well, one of mine and So's probs was him spending all his free time at one of those places with his cousin all the time..... A was really pushing for us to go to the one to see a band, and So, jerkoff, was all that sounds fun and looked all mad when I said no. And i could see A smilin to himself cuz he got us fighting again.
Hahaha - A has been getting upset cuz So has started spending most his time at home...He's still drinking but he has cut down and is spending more time with us. Small victory 1....yay.
A is used to So jumping and running anytime he wanted something. He'd want a ride somewhere, So be out the door. Borrow money to take his ex and kid (the only one out of 6 he bothers with)? So would be there... Or just wanting to hang out...if A called So jumped. Several times now, So has blown A off. I was looking at So's phone and saw all these texts from his cousin....lmao - Fucking loser sounded like a jealous girlfriend! "why are you ignoring me? don't be that way" hahaha Seems like So is starting to cut A out...... Small victory 2.