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Just wondering...

Posted by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:24 AM
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I dont post a lot but I do like most of you guys. I'm just curious if this constant feuding is ever going to stop? Like what would it take? 

Posted by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:24 AM
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LostInPlace
by Found In Space on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:35 AM
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Honestly, JRex, it's not the norm. Nobody mentioned anything about BBC for months before that blog. The blog got talked about for a few days and it died down. Then the Shai troll shit storm hit and it affected a lot of people here so that of course lasted a while. Then this happened.

But honestly, this isn't and "us vs. them" type of place. There is more CM negativity on BBC than there is BBC negativity here in general.

Give it a week or so. You will see.
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yourpinkone
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:35 AM

actually, it's pretty rare.  it's happened, what, maybe 3 or 4 times?  and it lasts for about 3 or 4 days and then it's said and done.

Starburst72
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 10:47 AM

there are efueds breaking out all the time on cm. one might end , anothe rbegins. 

Whyunoloveme
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:06 AM
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I don't understand the trying to call every poster out for lying and trying to be Internet sleuths. I have never tried to find out who the fuck someone is IRL. I looked up one Facebook page because it was linked to me. And it wasn't a member it was the dude with two wives possibly. I love drama as much as the next person, real or fake. I don't understand the need to call out people or losing your damn mind and becoming obsessed with other posters. That makes you a fucking psychotic loon. Don't engage people you don't like. And if drama is always around you, maybe it's not them maybe it's you. that isn't directed at people who have been estalked, the stalkers are fucking crazy, no rational behavior behind them. And so what of someone is lying? If they have to lie online to be cool, that only speaks to their character not mine. Flame me all you want. I'll never understand the need to be mean girls. And I don't get the us against them. I don't get what is wrong with being here and being in AL. Who cares? It never would have been such a big deal until people started gossiping an saying so and so did this. Be a fucking woman, nut up and say your grievances to someone fucking face. Don't hide behind your little screen and secret group. Ok. Off soapbox.
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MNDsM
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:11 AM

We actually have a rip roaring good time on here in those long moments between e-fights with BBC. I suppose it may stop when people in the BBC super secret groups stop talking so much shit that they disgust regular members enough that that member is compelled to spill the shit over here. So seriously BBC back stabbing mean girls...please figure your shit out, find out what compells you to act in this fashion, fix it, and let's all move on! And stop coming over here to find fodder for your groups.

hunsha
by FuckMyFace on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:16 AM

 I actually liked this group a lot more before all the bbc shit starting flowing over here. Now I'm lost! I don't bother posting now because there always seems to be some undercurrent of drama associated with each thread and it's just too hard to follow...

juicebox.
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:20 AM
^ what they said. It wasn't like this before recently.
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juicebox.
by on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:23 AM
This exactly. Creepers are gross, but we have them on cm too, exactly the same.

Quoting Whyunoloveme:

I don't understand the trying to call every poster out for lying and trying to be Internet sleuths. I have never tried to find out who the fuck someone is IRL. I looked up one Facebook page because it was linked to me. And it wasn't a member it was the dude with two wives possibly. I love drama as much as the next person, real or fake. I don't understand the need to call out people or losing your damn mind and becoming obsessed with other posters. That makes you a fucking psychotic loon. Don't engage people you don't like. And if drama is always around you, maybe it's not them maybe it's you. that isn't directed at people who have been estalked, the stalkers are fucking crazy, no rational behavior behind them. And so what of someone is lying? If they have to lie online to be cool, that only speaks to their character not mine. Flame me all you want. I'll never understand the need to be mean girls. And I don't get the us against them. I don't get what is wrong with being here and being in AL. Who cares? It never would have been such a big deal until people started gossiping an saying so and so did this. Be a fucking woman, nut up and say your grievances to someone fucking face. Don't hide behind your little screen and secret group. Ok. Off soapbox.
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AshleyAlready
by Weiner Gobbler on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:30 AM

I would say the feuds would stop if A.) those group members quit coming here to defend their shitty actions (not the apologizing, the "but it's your fault we're mean to you" stuff) and B.) if they'd quit talking about/obsessing over/tracking down members of this group.

We don't give a shit about them until they pop up--the problem is their constant popping up. You'd think for people who dislike this group so intensely, they'd be easier to get rid of...

Their circular reasoning and lack of logic is also an issue.

crazyblondemom
by Out of Sane on Jul. 2, 2012 at 11:51 AM
Meh cm attracts all sorts. Efights have to happen or our llamas won't get good and fat for the cm god sacrifice of the fattest llamas.
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