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Anal sex.

Posted by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:54 PM
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How do you make it hurt less?
I was a backdoor virgin up until a month or two ago and it hurt
is there anything to make is less painful?
by on Oct. 5, 2012 at 10:54 PM
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bbecker001
by Becks on Oct. 5, 2012 at 11:25 PM
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Lots of lube.

I put a dildo in first and then had him go in slowly. Didn't hurt at all.
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laineysmum
by WWRPD? on Oct. 5, 2012 at 11:39 PM
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1. LUBE. LOTS. Reapply often.

2. RE FUCKING LAX. Relax. You have to be super mellow. Wine helps. 

3. Go slooooooow. Start small, like with a finger or a butt dildo (they are smaller at the tip and get thicker). Work your way up to peen-circumference.

4. You actually have two "buttholes" - the one on the outside which is relatively easy to stretch/relax, and an inner one. The inner ring is the only muscle in your body that is in a naturally tense state, and you have to physically relax it. When DH is "going for the gold" (brown?), you have to relax it by bearing down, or "pushing" like you are trying to take a dump.  oh that leads me to 

5. Make sure you've pooped recently. Just... because. 

BONUS: I have a tiny ass and DH has a big dong. Even after following all the above steps, there is a certain angle that I HAVE to get into before I can handle anal. It's on hands and knees, with my knees tucked up a little and my ass pushed back a little. Haha sorry, thats the best way I can explain it. 

We don't do it often, but when we do all 5 steps and find that angle, it is fucking AMAZING. Good luck! 

GoRed
by Not A Sheephole on Oct. 5, 2012 at 11:42 PM

Ew, fuck that.  XH always wanted it, fuck that, it hurts, why do something that only benefits one party and hurts the other?

HubbaBubbaBOO
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 12:56 AM
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anal sex can be pleasruable for the chick too. u just gotta work up to it. can't be thrusting and bustin all up in ur hole. gotta slowly get it in. best orgasm youll ever have tho

Quoting GoRed:

Ew, fuck that.  XH always wanted it, fuck that, it hurts, why do something that only benefits one party and hurts the other?


laineysmum
by WWRPD? on Oct. 6, 2012 at 1:10 AM

LOL cause your EX was a weird coooooont. I wouldn't let him put it in my butt either! ;) 

Quoting GoRed:

Ew, fuck that.  XH always wanted it, fuck that, it hurts, why do something that only benefits one party and hurts the other?


luvcloudydays
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 2:45 AM
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First, shave or wax your glory hole. Second, start out small and work your way up to the peen. Third, buy numbing lube, they have some specifically for anal. They also have the lubes available in different flavors...mine is cherry.
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Fistandantalus
by on Oct. 6, 2012 at 6:33 AM
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Make damn sure your partner knows what the fuck he's doing and not trying to re-create some Epic Porn Moment that gave him the mad tingles once upon a spank.
Djinn83
by lainey's idol on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:04 AM
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The only pleasure a woman can get from anal is mental. We don't have prostates. Lol
Djinn83
by lainey's idol on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:04 AM
That was directed at Hubba.
futuremomma919
by Still Suspect on Oct. 6, 2012 at 10:30 AM
thank you guys this was very helpful. im scared lol bc my bum is tight and he is really thick!!! like one time we were having sex (tmi) ans i got like wet and he slipped out and put it in my butt on accident and it didnt even go in bit it ripped me a little
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