DS finally pooed in the toiled today. I bought him an app I've been promising. About twenty minutes later, he pooed in his undies (the first one was very small, I knew he had to go again, just not sure when). I took the iPod away, told him I wasn't mad, cleaned him up, and told him he could have it back when he used the potty again. He cried, then moments later peed in the toilet he got the iPad back. Is this negative reinforcement? I consider it a conditional reward.
Tonight, DS kept getting out of bed, so I said, ok, I'll a&e a toy away each time you get out of bed, and told him he can have them back in the am. Hes in bed after his fourth toy was taken.
Am I mean?