I don't know about other states/cities, but in Sacramento, CA, there's a website that has TONS of ideas for families to do things together. It's called sacramentorailworks.com. I love it! I never would have found some of the places my kids enjoy going if it weren't for this site. I don't make friends well (not sure why, exactly) so I needed to find a way for my kids to have fun, and maybe make some friends. That site has helped me more than I can express. Maybe some other mom's can find places near them, via this site? If not, please, feel free to leave a reply, and I will do what I can to help you!
Mom to Rose (7), Joe (6), Belle (4), & Olivia (3).