My girls birthdays are 4 days apart. My youngest DD turned 4 on Sunday and my older DD turned 7 yesterday. MIL lives upstairs from us (long story short - after her dh died she couldn't afford the house. We converted the basement into a 2 bedroom apartment, moved in and took over all the bills while she kept her house. I thought I was doing something nice but the dumb bitch throws it in my face everyday it's not my house). Anyway, last Thursday I went upstairs and said to her that on Sunday & Thursday, the actual day of the girls birthdays I would be doing a cake at 7:30 and I'd like her to join us. She said ok.
Well, on Sunday DD1 goes upstairs and says we're doing the cake now for DD2, it was 7:45. DH's nephews were upstairs so they came down, but not my MIL. A little after 8 my MIL calls us complaining that she wasn't included in the cake. What??? Is this crazy bitch kidding me?? I told her about a few days before and DD went to go get her. I guess asking her to get her lazy ass off the sofa was talking to much, how dare I ask her to miss watching some TV.
Now let's jump to last night.....DD1's birthday. I was finishing up DD's cake that she had asked me to make when DH comes over to me and asks how much longer till we have cake. I said I wasn't sure cause I was decorating it then asked why. Well he said that his mother went and got a cake to do with DD since she wasn't included. WHAT?????? She wanted DD to go upstairs and do the cake with her and DH's newphews. She seriously can't walk down a flight of stairs?? She'll come downstairs to take my food, pans and who knows what else but she can't come down for her granddaughter's cake.
Some how this whole thing got blown up. It turned into some crazy nonsense. DH is mad at me for being annoyed with his mom. I'm just so sick of her twisting everything around. I'm so tired of her making crazy shit up and acting like I'm trying to push her out of our lives. I'm the one that wants nothing but peace and for the family to be together.
Well, after last night I'm FINISHED!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't want that crazy ass bitch in my life anymore. I'm going back to not talking to her anymore. She'll have to go find someone else to bitch at. And when she needs me to drive her somewhere or run an errand for her she'll be screwed cause I'm not doing it anymore. The only time I have any peace is when she's out of my life. I've tried so many times.....I give up!!