My DD turned 4 on 4/1 and my other DD turned 7 on 4/5.
2 months ago I picked a date (4/21) to have a small family get together at my house to celebrate their birthdays. I invited my parents, MIL, FIL & Dh's stepmom & BIL. Along with my best friend who lives 5 minutes from us and our kids are the same age and we're always together. It's at 2pm tomorrow - simple appetizers and snacks then cake to celebrate. Nothing to crazy! My girls decided instead of parties with their friends and everything they wanted to go to an indoor water park however of course Grandparents & Aunts & Uncles want to celebrate so we're doing it tomorrow.
OK, now 2 months ago I called each person to tell them. Gave them the date & time - 2 MONTHS AGO!!!! Since that I've talked about it and everyone is coming. Well, today MIL said that she doesn't know if she can make it because she didnt get a FORMAL invite. Seriously?? There are some good garage sales she wants to attend. What a B***H!!!!!!!!!!!!! By the way she lives UPSTAIRS - it's not that far - just a few steps.
Oh and if that's not enough - the day of my youngest bday she didn't come down to sing happy bday because she was watching TV. Yup! I told her about it a week before - I said on Sunday & Thursday at 7:30 - the day actual day of their bdays we're going to have cake and sing like always. Well at 8pm I was looking for her, she was watching tv and never came, but she called for her slice of cake. Yea, I was bitch and didn't give her any. Then the day of my other DDs bday she went and bought a cake cause she said I never include her. After we sang and ate down here she said DD had to go upstairs to do cake again.
OMG - I can't stand her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Can you believe this shit?? She has garage sales to go to and didn't get a "Formal" invite for cake so she doesnt know if she can come. This woman is going to make me nuts!