How do you get along with the other family?
im having issues with the bf and his family. his mother doesnt work, his sister has 2 kids pregnant with the 3rd she doesnt work. The boyfriend works alittle but could be looking for a full time job for the summer. They havent paid for anything and has only took her to 2 appts.
and everytime she gets upset with me or her stepdad she threatens to move in with them. They cant pay their bills or have enough food in the house. I blew up the other day while the boyfriend was here when she threatened to move out and was packing. I would not let her take the baby stuff my friends and family have given her and i packed her some food so she could atleast eat for a little while. I told her infront of him if that is the kind of life she wants for her son then go. i wasnt going to fight anymore.
My husband feels as if they are brain washing her when she is around them. I am just tired and drained. I work and also have a 7yr with adhd,odd, anxiety, he has speech and ot appts soon will have to go for vision therapy plus he has learning disabilities. I cant do everything and pay for everything for them. im barely getting by myself.
just wondering if you dont agree with the other family. do you keep it to yourself or voice your opinion?