Not taking her psychiatric or cardiac meds
Taking to many pain meds and sleeping meds
Confusion over time of day, day of the week, ect
Has fallen multiple times
Not eating regular meals
A weeks worth of dishes piled in her sink again
Not showering or changing clothing
So much more.
Other facts (although there is so much more)
She does have family who says they will help but they havent. They did bring her home to her empty house from the hospital when I was away 2 weekends ago, but didn't take her prescriptions to the pharmacy or anything.
Family is in denial or unaware? If that is possible. Son refuses my phone calls and i don't know what she is telling them...
Idk, there is so much more, but I don't know what to do. I can't be her fulltime caregiver as I have my family to take care of. I was taking her to all appointments, talki g to her docs, scheduling appts & overall trying to get her help. I have now set limits, & she says her son will help during set times but it isnt happening. She missed getting her blood thinner levels checked last week, an orthopedic appt and a psych appt this week. They were supposed to be taking her for an mri tomorrow but apparently they cant do that now either. I'm no longer recording her appts, so she doesn't know when most are. She apparently told the person that called to come evaluate her for some kind of in hone care that someone else was coming.
Im afraid for her...and on top of it all, she may be evicted from her home next week because she doesnt have a lease (mobile home she inherited from her father but doesnt qualify for the community lease) & is behind on the rent. I feel like she is slipping throigh every crack, & i am out of ideas with family not stepping up but i cant just let her rot on her own either.
What would you do??.