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What is your school's policy on peanut butter?

Posted by on Sep. 15, 2012 at 7:01 PM
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 Although we do have children in our school with peanut allergies, our school has not banned it all together.

 

http://shine.yahoo.com/parenting/pb-38-j-worst-weapon-kid-bring-school-215000284.html

It's hard to believe something as small as a peanut could cause so much controversy. But put it in a lunch bag and it can divide a school.

In Viola, Arkansas, a debate is heating up, after a student had his peanut butter and jelly sandwich confiscated at lunchtime. The school has a no-peanut-products policy due to a few students with allergies, so the teacher helped the little boy get a new lunch and sent home a note explaining the situation to his mom.

That note didn't go over well, apparently. Soon after the incident, a 'School Nut Ban Discussion' group was launched on Facebook by parents conflicted over the policy.

 

Some parents believe allergy-free students shouldn't have to cater to a few kids' health sensitivities, particularly if it means cutting out healthy or low-cost snacks packed in their own child's lunchbox.

The mom who packed the confiscated PB&J sandwich thinks kids with allergies should learn "how to manage the problem" rather than live inside a "bubble," according to a local news report.

Other parents of special needs kids feel like they're playing second fiddle to those with allergies. "There are some autistic children that will only eat a PB&J sandwich or nothing at all," one parent opposing the ban argued on Facebook.

According to the Viola District Superintendent John May, this is the first push-back on a policy in place in his school for some time.

"The policy is in place to protect those with a severe, life threatening problem," May told Area Wide News, a Missouri-based news site. "Until we figure out something else, it would be foolish to drop the policy."

Over the span of a decade, reports of kids with peanut allergies have spiked by 18 percent, according to the CDC. Today, about 1 in 25 children suffer from the condition, and about 18 percent of them have had attacks in school. As a result, school-wide peanut bans have doubled in the past two years. But they haven't come without a fight.

One Connecticut mother of an allergic child was shocked by the hostility she was met with when proposing a peanut ban at her own kid's school. "People were extremely rude," she told the Associated Press. "They just thought it was a ridiculous request."

A child's well-being may have triggered the debate, but at the core of the conflict is a turf war. Is one parent's concerns about their own child interfering with the way other kids are raised? Some parents of allergic kids know being unpopular comes with the territory.

"Nobody wants to be a Peanut Allergy Mom," writes Mommyish blogger Gloria Fallon, whose son has severe life-threatening peanut allergies. "My main concern is my son's health, but I also don't want everyone to hate us. I actually am sorry for all the inconvenience having a PA kid creates. I know if my son didn't have food allergies, I'd probably think the kid who did was a pain in the a--. So I try to understand that for the most part, no one gets what we're going through."

Back in Viola, parents are looking for a compromise within the elementary school--hoping for a middle-ground approach some other institutions have taken. As opposed to banning nuts, some schools require all their teachers to be trained in using EpiPens, a life-saving device used in severe allergic attacks. Separating nut-eaters from non-nut-eaters in the lunchroom is another way to protect kids and raise awareness among students.

The Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network, a nut allergy advocacy group, believes compromise is better for kids with allergies than an outright ban. "What we want is everyone always thinking there could be a possibility (of an allergic reaction) and be on guard for it," the group's founder, Anne Munoz-Furlong, told the Associated Press.

But with compromise comes with new problems. Isolating a child at a separate table because of his or her allergies can create social ostracism and lead to bullying. (The American Pediatrics Association even cautions parents and teachers about the risk of harassment kids with peanut allergies face.)

Sitting at a special nut-free table or being the subject of a health lesson in class may save a kid's life but it won't win him any popularity contests. Fallon says that every time she drops her allergic son Nick off at a party, she has to run through worst case scenarios and procedures with the person in charge. "This usually results in the person looking frightened and probably wishing they didn't invite Nick," she says. "Nobody likes the finale, me especially."

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NatalieMH
by Silver Member on Sep. 15, 2012 at 9:02 PM
I have no idea what our schools policy is!
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mamivon2
by Sandra on Sep. 15, 2012 at 9:55 PM

I havent heard anything..my kids bring peanuts to school all the time or some kind of nuts

Gealach
by on Sep. 16, 2012 at 8:32 AM

No policy that I know of



angie2568
by Member on Sep. 18, 2012 at 1:11 PM

The afterschool (previous daycare) all items must be peanut free and bought items for parties have to show the label this is peanut free and manufactured in a peanut free factory.

2 of my kids schools they are allowed to have pb sandwiches, crackers, cookies etc but no one else is allowed to touch their food. In case someone has an allergy.

My youngest there are allergies in the school, just not his PreK public school program.

mom2jessnky
by on Sep. 18, 2012 at 1:17 PM

If a child has a peanut (or other) allergy, that food item is not allowed in their classroom, and the peanut kids eat at a separate table to avoid cross contamination.

I like that better than an all out ban.

jomami
by on Sep. 18, 2012 at 4:12 PM

We have a peanut free table in the lunch room.

Mom2Just1
by on Sep. 18, 2012 at 5:16 PM

No policy.  Peanut butter is allowed.

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carolina_gal
by Member on Sep. 18, 2012 at 5:43 PM
Only store bought classroom treats can be brought so they have the ingredients label.
MamaPeanut
by Kristy on Sep. 18, 2012 at 6:31 PM
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It's not banned.

I think it's ridiculous to ban something just because a few children are allergic.

If your child has a severe allergy, educate them about it, and communicate with the school staff.

My child is allergic to cats and I don't ask the school to ban any children who have cats at home and carry the dander in on their clothing.
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IncognitoOne
by Angela on Sep. 19, 2012 at 9:58 AM

They haven't said if anyone in the school has a peanut allergy, but I do know that it isn't banned. They actually serve PB&J as the alternate lunch every day.

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