DH & I have been thinking more about...............
.......baby #2 lately. He has gotten more serious about it and is actually suprising himself at how serious he is getting. Well, we made love the other night and yesterday morning he confessed to me...."I was thinking about making a baby last night while we were together." He didn't mean he would knock me up without me agreeing to it, but it sent a jolt through me when he said that. TMI but the way we were doing it (with or without a condom) wouldn't have gotten me pregnant if you get my drift, lol. Anyways, so the first step, I told him was to talk to our Park Manager because each home can only have 4 people max due to the water supply or something. Technically it is me, my dad, my DH and our DD. My dad doesn't live here anymore, but owns the house (it is a double wide in a VERY nice trailer park).
So realistically it is just me, DD and DH so a second child would make it 4 people living here. If that is the case, then we wouldn't have to move out. We are awaiting a call-back from the manager. If she says yes, it would be okay then we could move ahead and take more steps to be prepared for making another child. Second thing if she says yes would be for me to get a check-up to see if I'm healthy to have another. I am only concerned because I had Gallbladder Surgery a little over 2 months ago. I should be fine, but I want to make sure.
That's all I have thought of so far. I guess having one child makes it hard to make another (or it might just be me) because you know what to expect....lack of sleep, expenses, routines disrupted...it is truly life changing. DH says all the 'hardships' of having another child don't out-weigh the joys of having a baby. That touched me! I feel he is more ready than I am!