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3 month old child. Pregnant again? Advice how to break it to the family.

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:04 PM
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 So recently I've noticed I've been crazy emotional & I bought a dollar test. I took one it said no, so I thought. I saw it the next morning. The one line looked like it was there but you had to look pretty hard to see it. I'm a little worried but I'm pretty sure I could very well be pregnant. I'm feeling those bubbly feelings, peeing like a pregnant woman, & obviously an emotional wreck.

So I'm a little terrified I could be pregnant again. It's a very good chance but I already had my first born & I don't think I'm ready for another child honestly...I'm nervous considering I just recently moved to Florida & his family & my family has been telling me hold off until we have our stuff together before we have a child. Lets put it this way we're still looking for jobs. I'm waiting on a really good job to be offered to me I should be finding out tomorrow. it's full time & it's what I usually work in & it was hard finding this position but the interview went for 50 minutes. I believe it went pretty well but you never know.

Anyways....I'm afraid if I am I don't know how I could break it to the family. Any advice. I'm so damn nervous to say anything & to find out that I very well could be. I took the due date calculator from my period & well, it's a day before my child's birthday. That's crazyyy!

I would love to be pregnant again but I'd rather have a job & be on my feet & my child to be out of diapers before I have another...but the way it's feeling...I might be...I could very well not be but....you never know. Except I'm pretty sure I am....lol.

Has anyone have this issue before?


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MaiasMommy619
by Safina on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:17 PM
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I would not tell anyone anything yet. Confirm the fact that you are pregnant and then worry about it.. You could be making yourself feel this way for nothing!! Wait it out! Wait another 2-3 days and test again.
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Misserica91
by Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:42 PM
Thank you. I'm hoping I'm really not. My period is due on the 28th or so. So based on that we'll see.
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TAG_ur_it
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 11:38 PM

the tests are invalid after 10 minutes or so.  retest in a couple of days if your worried. 


Dinimon
by Diana on Feb. 14, 2013 at 11:48 PM
I would just retest in a few days. The test results are invalid after so long.
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WendyJR
by Wendy on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:10 AM
This

Quoting TAG_ur_it:

the tests are invalid after 10 minutes or so.  retest in a couple of days if your worried. 


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TaralynnStewart
by Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 1:11 AM
This exactly


Quoting TAG_ur_it:

the tests are invalid after 10 minutes or so.  retest in a couple of days if your worried. 



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GOBryan
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:00 AM
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Surprise!! I'm pregnant.. It wasn't planned but we're scared and happy and hope you will support us through it. THE END.. 

The reality is that it's YOUR decision along with your husband, NOT the extended family's. 

fla33023
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 8:01 AM
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You've already had your period since the birth of your 3 month old? Your body is still trying to get itself together. I would retest in a week or so
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MamaBear2cubs
by Nikki on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:31 AM
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I agree retest in about a week.Good luck!

Misserica91
by Member on Feb. 15, 2013 at 9:31 AM
I did get my period twice since I had him. Thank you haha. But to the other ladies if I didn't go by my test after 10 minutes I would have never realized I was pregnant with my first.
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