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johnny4ever
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Posted by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 8:43 AM
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My son had a friend come over yesterday.I posted on FB thank you to the mom for letting him come over.Well...a few hours later I got a phone call from a trusted friend about the Family History and the New Step-Dad.He has a BIG Criminal Background for Assault & Drugs...hard Drugs!!!What do I do when she asked my son to play at her house?Hubby worked really late so I am gonna talk to him when he awakens.I am a type of person who believes people deserve the benefit to the doubt but there are recent charges in the last year alone.I hate telling my son No but sometimes you have to! 

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i.heart.myboys
by Amber on Jan. 3, 2013 at 9:39 AM
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I don't know what I would do. I think sometimes kids like that need a place they can come to that's stable. I wouldn't want my son over there.
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mommyfrey83
by Tianna on Jan. 3, 2013 at 11:53 AM
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I don't think I would let my son go over unless I was with him. Maybe see if you can do a coffee date at her house to see how things run there?

BlessedToBeMe
by Lindsay on Jan. 3, 2013 at 12:37 PM

I agree about staying with him & getting to know everyone before you decide if your comfortable with your son going over there without you


mem82
by Representative on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:17 PM

yup

Quoting BlessedToBeMe:

I agree about staying with him & getting to know everyone before you decide if your comfortable with your son going over there without you



mem82
by Representative on Jan. 3, 2013 at 1:17 PM

Have you confirmed that this is true and not just rumors?

johnny4ever
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by on Jan. 3, 2013 at 2:31 PM


Quoting mem82:

Have you confirmed that this is true and not just rumors?

It is true plus we learned something more disturbign today.He was a prime subject in a 17 years old Murder....nobody was ever charged. Crazy what you can find when you google search somebody.

JoeyJrsMomma
by Carrie on Jan. 4, 2013 at 8:03 AM

Noone can come between your son and saftey. Since this is confirmed info, there's no way I would let my kids near that house.

When I was younger there was a new girl that lived at the end of our street. My parents let me go to their house once and I told them it smelled funny. I couldn't understand why my parents refused to let me go over there again, until they got busted for growing weed in their basement. 

ivylynn0711
by Ivy on Jan. 4, 2013 at 3:17 PM

I wouldn't let  my kid go if i knew it wasn't a safe place. 

johnny4ever
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by on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:49 PM

Thanks Ladies!

JMmomof2
by New Member on Jan. 4, 2013 at 6:51 PM
Always have your sons friend at your house. My kids friends are always at our house.
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