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need help geeting my boyfriend out of my house

Posted by on Apr. 8, 2013 at 7:38 AM
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Hey ohio ladies need advice. Never thought i would be in this situation but i am and i need help getting out of it. Ive been with my bf for 3 years now and we have a one year old son. Well we have been in some pretty bad fights to where i ask him to leave my house. He says nope imstaying right here sweetie. Raises his fist at me but never hits me. He says cuz us girls like to press charges and hes not going to get in that. Another thing he does is when hes angry hes always like bitch ill smash your tv( that i just bought) ill smash yiur car windows... i will light your house on fire atuff like that and i cant take it anymore and i duunno how to get him out of my house :( i did buy this house everything is in my name ... Ugggghhh what did i get my self intooo
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sallij
by Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 7:54 AM
Are there domestic violence programs in your area? DV includes psychological abuse and implied violence. They will be able to help you get a plan and get in contact with local resources.
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Muse012
by New Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 8:51 AM
Totally agree!!! I was in a relationship that I ended after he told me " you don't even know what I could do to you, and they wouldn't find you for weeks". It's difficult, but you need to separate yourself from the situation. You need to get support from friends and family and get the police involved. The fact that he mentioned that's what "girls" like to do, sounds like he has had some history in that department.

Good luck. And if you need any further help, PM me


Quoting sallij:

Are there domestic violence programs in your area? DV includes psychological abuse and implied violence. They will be able to help you get a plan and get in contact with local resources.

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SalemWitchChild
by Member on Apr. 8, 2013 at 10:48 AM

I'd call the police and have him escorted out. Then file a restraining order.

johnny4ever
by Tracy on Apr. 8, 2013 at 11:05 AM


Quoting SalemWitchChild:

I'd call the police and have him escorted out. Then file a restraining order.

THIS!

mem82
by Representative on Apr. 8, 2013 at 6:01 PM

Call the police and ask them what to do.

If he has been living with you for long enough, you might have to give him a 30 day eviction notice. 8(

Before he knows what is going on, go and file for emergency custody of your kid. Call the cops everytime he threatens you. Make a paper trail. Record him being abusive in front of the baby.

Misha1204
by Misha on Apr. 8, 2013 at 7:20 PM

This!!!

Quoting SalemWitchChild:

I'd call the police and have him escorted out. Then file a restraining order.


mommyfrey83
by Tianna on Apr. 9, 2013 at 8:16 AM

Call the police for sure, they will be able to help you get him out. 

NurseRapunzel
by Member on Apr. 9, 2013 at 11:37 AM
Um call the cops. Thats what I did when I kicked my ex out of my house. then I had the cops return the next day when he came to pick up his stuff. They will let him get enough for the night and then have him get his stuff later pre packed.
Muse012
by New Member on Apr. 28, 2013 at 7:01 PM
Been thinking about you. How is everything?
DirtyHippyMama
by on Apr. 28, 2013 at 7:52 PM

I would leave if he refuses to! You should not have to put up with that. :( 

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