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Does reading erotica spice up your love life?

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Are you one of the 50 million women that have read the novel 50 Shades of Grey? And will you admit it? Sex therapist and relationship counselor Ian Kerner joins the Mad Life for this lively discussion!




Does reading erotica spice up your love life?  Tell us other ways you keep things spicy in the bedroom.

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by on Nov. 26, 2012 at 8:54 AM
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elasmimi
by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 7:13 AM
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I have not read this book, but cannot deny there are some benefits to erotic reading. I think men are more visual, as in watching porn, while many women are more turned on by the whole story, so to speak.

lillucky8
by Silver Member on Nov. 28, 2012 at 9:29 AM
I havent read it.
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momofsixangels
by Gold Member on Dec. 1, 2012 at 12:14 PM

Sex life??LOL. Not here

bwsmommy
by Bronze Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 9:59 AM

 While it didnt make me want to jump my dh like right that min .. it did help us get back in a swing of things .. before i got so big with this pregnancy ... I will admit im a lights out type person .. because yeah .. i like to think of "other" things while having sex ..

bwsmommy
by Bronze Member on Dec. 2, 2012 at 10:00 AM

 For me its deft. the story .. and the way it plays out .. because it all goes back to fantasy ..

Quoting elasmimi:

I have not read this book, but cannot deny there are some benefits to erotic reading. I think men are more visual, as in watching porn, while many women are more turned on by the whole story, so to speak.

 

MrsRobinson06
by Bronze Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 3:20 PM
Yes and it is why i am currently pregnant lol.
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TigerofMu
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 5:02 PM

I won't read it, because I think those thoughts and images should belong to my husband and no one else.

louannwilkins
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 5:31 PM

 I havent read it but I don't see any harm in it and it probably could help in some cases

aneela
by Silver Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 5:49 PM

dont really read any lol

Wynn0809
by Member on Dec. 3, 2012 at 6:26 PM
I think it does...I know after watching certain movies that contain sex or reading books filled with it, it turns me on and dh gets to enjoy that lol
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