Can flirting go too far? Hear what Andrew, Joanie and Chuck had to say!
Recently, we asked: “How far is too far to go when it comes to flirting with someone other than your spouse?” Some agreed that there is a fine line between innocent flirtation and a dangerous rendezvous. Hear what Andrew, Joanie and Chuck from the Mad Life have to say and then tell us, is there such a thing as “healthy flirtation?”
Quoting MrsRobinson06:I think if its not something you would do in front of your s/o then it's probably not something you should be doing.
Quoting peaches_04:
Agree
Quoting MrsRobinson06:I think if its not something you would do in front of your s/o then it's probably not something you should be doing.
Flirting can lead to other things. I mean if you're thinking of flirting then you're thinking of something right. ;)
Is that a serious question? I hope it is a joke, because it made me giggle...
Quoting SlapItHigh:I don't think flirting is ever good for a married person to do with anyone other than their spouse.
I agree. I don't think it has anything to do with whether you trust them or not, I think it has to do with what is appropriate and whether there is respect.
Quoting GwenMB:I've never been one to flirt, so definitely don't flirt with other men now that I'm married.
I think my DH would be upset if he saw me flirting with someone. He's not controlling or jealous, he trusts me completely. I think he would just view it as inappropriate - and he'd think it inappropriate for any married person to flirt with someone they aren't married to.
I have to also say that I wouldn't be happy to see my DH flirting with someone else, either. I also trust him, but I want any of that type of behavior directed to me, not someone else.
I don't think there is such a thing as healthy flirty outside of your SO/DH. I think it could cause a lot of problems in a relationship


- Cafe AmyB
on Dec. 5, 2012 at 10:21 AM