Okay when I had my first son I was very young (20) and was single. SO, sex wasn't even on the radar for me.
This time, BF and I STILL haven't had sex. Our son will be 3 months old in 2 days. We didn't have sex for the last few months of my pregnancy because I was so sick. Matter of fact, we only had sex maybe 5 times the whole time I was preggo.
I want to do it again really badly. He keeps putting it off.
Now to be fair, we are super busy/stressed. The baby has RSV, my older son has an ear infection from hell that won't go away and his older daughter has a broken hand. Plus, the older two are in school and have activities and such. Plus, there is the whole everyday cooking and cleaning. And I haven't returned to work yet (cause we can't get the kids well enough for me to start needing to take time off as soon as I go back)......so money is tight.
I know he is stressed and so am I. But the more stressed I am the more I want to do it. The more stressed he is- the less interested he is. I'm dying.
How long did it take ya'll to return to your sex lives after baby?