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Do You Speak Your Partner's Love Language?

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Ian Kerner, Sex and Relationship Expert guides us through a quiz that helps you evaluate which forms of expression you use to communicate your love to your partner. Watch this video to see what he has to say:

Is physical touch more important than words of affirmation? Or would you rather have more quality time than receive gifts? 

by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 10:01 AM
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by New Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 12:25 PM

We took this a while back. He is great at speaking mine, but I am terrible at speaking his :(  My language is acts of service. He is great about cleaning on the weekends so that I can relax since that is all that I do through the week being a SAHM. His is touch. I try so hard, but I'm just not a touchy-feely person and it makes me feel terrible :(    There is also a quiz out there that you can have your children take. I asked my oldest(6) the questions and we found out that his is words of affirmation.

by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 12:37 PM

Mine is words of affirmation and quality time.  I don't like to be touched alot, and gifts just take up space.

by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 12:47 PM

No, we don't.  My LL are Acts of Service and quality time, DH's are physical touch and words of affirmation.

by Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 12:59 PM

I try to =)

by on Apr. 29, 2013 at 1:05 PM

Quality time over gifts, definitely.

by Bronze Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 1:53 PM

I agree!  =-)

Quoting Samanthamommy:

Quality time over gifts, definitely.

by Bronze Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 1:58 PM

mine is acts of service, his is quality time. we've been slowly speaking eachother's languages but it takes time for sure. 

by Platinum Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:02 PM

I would much rather have the quality time then any gift

by Gold Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:49 PM

i can't watch the video right now but my MIL has this book and wants us to read it. lol

by Silver Member on Apr. 29, 2013 at 2:49 PM


Quoting rockyhugs35:

Mine is quality time and acts of affirmation.
I'll have to have hubby take this test.


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