My sister is coming for a visit this summer. She is bringing her girlfriend with and wants to stay at our house-in the same room.
We have 3 impressionable children under 10 and we're not comfortable with it. We are understanding of her lifestyle even though we don't agree with it. They understand that their aunt has a friend and they get along with them both really well but they don't understand the concept of them being romatically involved.
We wouldn't be comfortable with the sleeping arrangements even if it was a boyfriend she was bringing instead of a girlfriend. We do realize that living with your boyfriend/girlfriend is mainstream now but we don't want our kids exposed to it. We are a bit old fashioned, I guess you could say.
We have tried to tell her that she can stay here but they'd have to spend the night separately and she says no. We also suggested a hotel room instead but she doesn't want to spend the money.
What do you think? Should we just cave and allow it or should we stick to our guns?