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What parts of pregnancy did you find the grossest?

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Famous Model Says Pregnancy Is 'Gross' & She's Right

posted by Julie Ryan Evans 

pregnantThere are a lot of lovely adjectives that describe pregnancy -- magical, miraculous, and joyous, to name a few. However, there's another less-lovely one that people often don't want to mention that describes it pretty well too though -- gross. Sorry, but it's true, and model Lisa D'Amato for one isn't afraid to tell it like is.

In a recent interview with People, the former star of America's Next Top Model got real about how difficult her pregnancy has been. She says while she's fortunate that it's a healthy pregnancy, it hasn't been all fun and games. She's still suffering from morning sickness at eight months, and she just wants her body back.

I'm usually feeling pretty bad but always trying to stay positive. When people say I'm glowing, I tell them it's because someone needs to put on the AC. That whole 'pregnancy glow' thing is a joke! There is nothing pretty about pregnancy except creating a life -- other than that I think it's pretty gross.

I would disagree that there's nothing pretty about pregnancy, because I do think there are some beautiful moments -- like hearing the heartbeat, and feeling the kicks, and just the knowledge that you are growing another human being inside you. But she's right about the gross part too, and sometimes they trump the beauty.

From peeing on pregnancy tests to internal ultrasounds, constipation, morning sickness, hemorrhoids, and after-birth, you can't argue that pregnancy isn't gross. Most people just don't want to come out and say it. But women should know that it's not all picture perfect, so D'Amato's honesty is refreshing.

While some women want to paint a picture of a perfect pregnancy of which they enjoy every minute, I doubt that's the case for almost anyone. And it's okay to talk about the hard stuff, complain even. It doesn't mean you're any less excited about your baby or will be any less of a mother. And you might as well get used to embracing the gross while you're pregnant, because let me tell you, kids are even grosser.

What parts of pregnancy did you find the grossest?

by on Aug. 28, 2013 at 7:49 AM
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by Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 6:35 PM
3 moms liked this
Snail trail
by Gold Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 7:09 PM
The huge swelling with #2 was grossly painful. How sweaty and smelly I always felt was gross too.
by Gold Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 10:00 PM
The hair loss after i had baby. I have to clean out my hairbrush twice a day and it's gross.
by Silver Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 10:14 PM
1 mom liked this

Puking, constipation, gas.. Ick

by Silver Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 11:09 PM

ummm...waking up at 2:30 in the morning to my water breaking. big time puddle in my bed. I think dh was pretty happy that he was sleeping in the guest room that night.

by Silver Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 11:09 PM

peeing myself... Not fun

by Silver Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 11:11 PM

Morning sickness was the worse....I used to never vomit before I got pregnant...

by Bronze Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 11:29 PM

For me it would have to be having preeclampias twice because with my oldest my whole body was swollen and I would like one big beach whale and with my youngest my feet were really swollen that i double cankles.

by Silver Member on Aug. 28, 2013 at 11:46 PM

I did not care for pregnancy-

by on Aug. 29, 2013 at 12:22 AM
1 mom liked this

what?? pregnancy is not gross, if your not ready for the little things that come with it than dont get pregnant

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