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Did you drink during your pregnancy?

Posted by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:53 AM
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Pregnant Woman Outraged After Bartender Refuses to Serve Her

posted by Mary Fischer 


red wineA mom-to-be in the U.K. is all bent out of shape because a bartender refused to serve her a glass of wine, you know -- because she happened to be wearing a big ol' baby bump as an accessory that evening.

Jane Hampson says she felt "outraged and embarrassed" after she and her partner stopped at a local bar after a walk. The bartender told her he could not serve her a small glass of red wine because he didn't want the act of serving a pregnant woman alcohol on his conscience.

She and her partner promptly left the place and went to another bar where she got her red wine fix without a problem -- but she's still pretty pissed.

And while I don't think it's a bad thing for a pregnant woman to have a glass of wine here and there -- I can't say that I blame the bartender for refusing to serve her. I mean, she's pregnant pregnant (she appears to be well into her third trimester). Everyone knows pregnant women and alcohol don't exactly go hand in hand, and this poor dude didn't want to feel like he was possibly responsible for doing harm to her unborn baby.

Personally, I did not drink at all during my pregnancy. Not one sip. I swear. A few years prior to that, I'd been out to dinner and seen a heavily pregnant woman drinking wine at the table next to me -- and something about it just didn't sit right with me. It just looked so ... awkward. I knew right then and there that I'd never take a drink once I was expecting a child.

But don't misunderstand me because I really don't have a problem with pregnant women who do choose to have a little vino. Still, they need to understand that not everyone is going to agree with it, and they need to expect the kind of reaction that Jane got from that bartender.

If you're preggo and you want to have a drink -- fine. But it might be a good idea to have it in the privacy of your own home if you aren't prepared for some folks to have an issue with it.

Did you drink during your pregnancy?

by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:53 AM
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jen113000
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:56 AM
I did not drink while pregnant. Even though I turned 21 and was pregnant.
mamamedic69
by Deanna on Sep. 30, 2013 at 8:57 AM
No I didn't drink while I was pregnant.
brittany208
by Gold Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 9:19 AM

the first time, not a sip. the second time, just a couple sips from DH's wine while out at a restaurant. im not a huge drinker anyways, but i wanted to try it.

luvmylilbean
by Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 9:25 AM

Hell no. My child's health is number 1.

abifasc
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 10:07 AM
No I don't drink at all.
wandep
by Silver Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 10:41 AM

No, I don't drink at all.

ScrChk23
by Silver Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 11:18 AM

I did not.

Rust.n.Gears
by on Sep. 30, 2013 at 11:21 AM
Nope. I wouldn't take the risk. If you can't abstain for 9 months for your baby you have an alcohol problem and need treatment. This woman has issues if booze is that important.
melissanoel
by New Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 11:22 AM

I don't drink, so no. Even if I was a drinker I would not have drank while I was pregnant.

othermom
by Gold Member on Sep. 30, 2013 at 11:30 AM

No never did

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