My husband and I were on a 4-day mini vacation and asked his parents to cat-sit. When we got home I discovered that his mom cleaned our kitchen and vacuumed. This really annoyed me. I can see cleaning your sons house if he was living by himself or was younger, but my husband and I have been married 2 years, living together for 5, and he is 3-years shy of being 30. I feel this is very intrusive, an invasion of privacy, and disrespectful as if she's saying my cleaning skills are not good enough for her son.
Is it just me? Or would this bother anyone else?