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What Do You Want Your Spouse to Love Most About You?

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We know what we love the most about our spouses, and we may even know what we love most about ourselves, but what do we want our spouses to say they love most about us? Andrew, Chuck, Joanie AND their spouses take the test!

by on Oct. 28, 2013 at 9:29 AM
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by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 12:28 AM

I want him to love me for my faith in God and my role as a wife and mother.

by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 12:41 AM
Everything he already does love me for!
by on Oct. 29, 2013 at 1:10 AM

 giving heartI say my answer to I hope he would say he loves and appreciates about me that he loves how I make him feel and he loves being around me. That he loves how I treat other people and animals and that I am beautiful inside and out to him.

typingSo then I emailed him at work (we email back and forth thru  the night whenever he is at work.)  I told him cafemom asked "What do you love and appreciate about me most?"

in love He wrote back and his answer fit mine and even more.. YAY : ) He wrote:

(copy and pasted from his email)

1.       You are beautiful inside and out

2.       You are a gift from God especially for me

3.       You are kind and generous to so many

4.       Me and the kids are your top priority

5.       You love animals like I do

6.       We are 100% completely connected spiritually/soulmates

7.       You shine and celebrate every day when I come home

8.       You make me shine just being around you

9.       You know how to relax me

10.   You know how to take care of me in various ways

11.   You put up with me

12.   You make me feel comfortable always

13.   You are obsessed with me

14.   You know how to have fun

15.   You make me laugh

16.   You know me like no one else and understand me

17. You are an exceptional lover.


by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 5:33 AM

 How hard  work for our famly to be happy.

by on Oct. 29, 2013 at 8:06 AM
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Totally agree, and I think he does.

Quoting chattycassie:

Everything. I love him for all he is and nothing less.

by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 10:49 AM
Everything,like how I'm the most awesome person ever... And my modesty;) lol
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by on Oct. 29, 2013 at 11:05 AM

I want him to love me for being me.  The good, the bad, the ugly. 

I love him for he is and that includes all his positive and not so positive traits. 

To ask me to list a certain thing would be like asking him to "evaluate" me and that isn't what love and relationships should be IMO.

by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 12:35 PM

Love me for me.

by Silver Member on Oct. 29, 2013 at 9:43 PM

I want him to love me for who I am, my giving nature, my mind, and all I do to take care of the family.

by Gold Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 9:44 AM
I want him to love me just for being me.
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