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What Do You Want Your Spouse to Love Most About You?

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We know what we love the most about our spouses, and we may even know what we love most about ourselves, but what do we want our spouses to say they love most about us? Andrew, Chuck, Joanie AND their spouses take the test!



by on Oct. 28, 2013 at 9:29 AM
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TerriC
by Bronze Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 10:07 AM

I want him to love me for being me.  Taking care of the kids, raising them right and making him happy as well.

Flaca43
by Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 11:48 AM
For how much I do for him and our family and that I give my all and don't complain or want to stop or give up. For my kindness and thoughtfulness to others.
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Wish2Be
by Silver Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 5:12 PM
I want him to love my mind and personality...all of me!
Wish2Be
by Silver Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 5:13 PM
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This is close to what I intended to write.

Quoting TerriC:

I want him to love me for being me.  Taking care of the kids, raising them right and making him happy as well.

Wish2Be
by Silver Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 5:15 PM
Aww that's so sweet. My DH wouldn't answer.

Quoting earthangel1967:

 giving heartI say my answer to I hope he would say he loves and appreciates about me that he loves how I make him feel and he loves being around me. That he loves how I treat other people and animals and that I am beautiful inside and out to him.


typingSo then I emailed him at work (we email back and forth thru  the night whenever he is at work.)  I told him cafemom asked "What do you love and appreciate about me most?"


in love He wrote back and his answer fit mine and even more.. YAY : ) He wrote:


(copy and pasted from his email)





1.       You are beautiful inside and out


2.       You are a gift from God especially for me


3.       You are kind and generous to so many


4.       Me and the kids are your top priority


5.       You love animals like I do


6.       We are 100% completely connected spiritually/soulmates


7.       You shine and celebrate every day when I come home


8.       You make me shine just being around you


9.       You know how to relax me


10.   You know how to take care of me in various ways


11.   You put up with me


12.   You make me feel comfortable always


13.   You are obsessed with me


14.   You know how to have fun


15.   You make me laugh


16.   You know me like no one else and understand me


17. You are an exceptional lover.

conweis
by Platinum Member on Oct. 30, 2013 at 6:43 PM

I want my SO to love my bitchiness. I want him to like me for assets but love me for my flaws and he does. He loves when I go into bitch mode LOL! 

4kidz916
by Member on Oct. 31, 2013 at 11:52 AM

I don't have a spouse at the moment but I  would want to be loved for being a kind person and a good mother. 

4kidz916
by Member on Oct. 31, 2013 at 7:24 PM

I think a lot of men take for granted how much their wives do.

Quoting Leelee1008:

I have no idea. maybe the way I take care of him, being faithful to him, standing by his side, being a good mother to our children. 

I really dont think he fully appreciates everything I do LOL.


4kidz916
by Member on Oct. 31, 2013 at 7:26 PM
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That's so sweet. 

Quoting earthangel1967:

 giving heartI say my answer to I hope he would say he loves and appreciates about me that he loves how I make him feel and he loves being around me. That he loves how I treat other people and animals and that I am beautiful inside and out to him.

typingSo then I emailed him at work (we email back and forth thru  the night whenever he is at work.)  I told him cafemom asked "What do you love and appreciate about me most?"

in love He wrote back and his answer fit mine and even more.. YAY : ) He wrote:

(copy and pasted from his email)

1.       You are beautiful inside and out

2.       You are a gift from God especially for me

3.       You are kind and generous to so many

4.       Me and the kids are your top priority

5.       You love animals like I do

6.       We are 100% completely connected spiritually/soulmates

7.       You shine and celebrate every day when I come home

8.       You make me shine just being around you

9.       You know how to relax me

10.   You know how to take care of me in various ways

11.   You put up with me

12.   You make me feel comfortable always

13.   You are obsessed with me

14.   You know how to have fun

15.   You make me laugh

16.   You know me like no one else and understand me

17. You are an exceptional lover.


mrswillie
by Silver Member on Nov. 1, 2013 at 8:14 AM
Same here

Quoting chattycassie:

Everything. I love him for all he is and nothing less.
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