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What Are the Questions You Should Ask Someone Before You Marry Them?

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We all know the big issues we have to cover when we're courting, but what are the little nit-picky questions we should ask before we get married? Ericka Souter, editor from The Stir, is here to talk about those little details of life that can make a big difference in your marriage!



by on Jan. 26, 2014 at 8:28 PM
Replies (41-50):
Janet
by Silver Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 8:30 PM

How many children do they want?

SweetLuci
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 8:44 PM

 We discussed all the important things, finances, religion, kids, values. I'm glad we did.

PennOhioBabe
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 9:03 PM
Quoting la_bella_vita:

 We discussed everything before getting married. Children, money and life goals. We have been happily married and have never dealt with any serious issues. Only minor. Open and honest is the key.





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Desirae1394
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 11:32 PM

How many kids?

sah or working mom?

faith?

politics?


conweis
by Platinum Member on Jan. 28, 2014 at 11:34 PM
I know my SO from just hanging around him. My ex on the other hand lied through his teeth until after we got married.
countrygirlkat
by Silver Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 12:11 AM

I agree that the girl was creepy!  I think if my DH had me fllowed by a pi, I would have left him if I found out.  That shows he can't trust me without proof and that isn't much to build a relationship on. 

Quoting Lizzys_mommy13: This was definitely a good video! The chick that hired the investigator sounds creepy! LOL
In all honesty, I asked all the right questions and felt that I really knew my husband before we got married. I feel now like a lot of things were lied to me about, but we have been consistently working on things as they come up. Relationships are hard, and I don't think there will ever be a time where I don't learn something new about my husband or have something that we have to work on. We've been married 5 years and have been through a lot. Neither one of us are the same as we used to be.


babyboxfish
by on Jan. 29, 2014 at 3:34 AM


Quoting Desirae1394:

How many kids?

sah or working mom?

faith?

politics?



TerriC
by Bronze Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 8:43 AM

 That had to be tough.  :-(

Quoting conweis: I know my SO from just hanging around him. My ex on the other hand lied through his teeth until after we got married.

 

othermom
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 9:49 AM
We didn't ask a lot of questions. We just new that we got along and accept each other for who we are
conweis
by Platinum Member on Jan. 29, 2014 at 10:06 AM

 It was. He became abusive two weeks after we were married. I didn't even know he smoked until after we were married. He hid that from me.

Quoting TerriC:

 That had to be tough.  :-(

Quoting conweis: I know my SO from just hanging around him. My ex on the other hand lied through his teeth until after we got married.

 

 

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