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Heroes: Are Our Kids Worshipping the Right Ones?

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2014 at 11:38 AM
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We had celebrity role models when we were kids, so when we see kids doing the same thing, how concerned should we be about the people they choose to idolize?

 

by on Feb. 5, 2014 at 11:38 AM
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proudmommy690
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:09 PM
Im not really sure who they idolize. They're still too young for that...except my 7yr old. But she hasn't said who she really loves or idolized.
goddess99
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 12:55 PM

I don't really worry too much about this. A couple weeks ago my dd, 11, told me how shocked she was that Miley is behaving inappropriately. Her words. So that was nice to hear she gets it and she doesn't like her anymore. Guess I'm doing something right.

HotSouthernMess
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:37 PM

My kids are pretty shielded from main-stream media. They have no clue who most "famous" people are. 


Rust.n.Gears
by on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:47 PM
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I am very happy with who my kids idolize. My 9 year old wants to be Bronwen Weber whose a baker on Food Network Challenge. My 12 year old daughter loves J.K. Rowling. She's president of the school newspaper.
mamamedic69
by Deanna on Feb. 5, 2014 at 1:50 PM
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My dd is still young plus we don't really watch TV.
sukainah
by Gold Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 2:24 PM
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I think my kids are too young, still to have a real hero.  Heck, they still love Thomas and friends LOL

ceciliam
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 2:46 PM
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I don't really believe in idolizing other people. I would rather teach my son to be true to himself, and not worry about basing his life and decisions off of someone he doesn't even know.

Barabell
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 3:03 PM
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I feel the same way as you. My 14 year old son also thinks her actions are very inappropriate, and it reassures me that he knows better than to idolize a negative roll model.

Quoting goddess99:

I don't really worry too much about this. A couple weeks ago my dd, 11, told me how shocked she was that Miley is behaving inappropriately. Her words. So that was nice to hear she gets it and she doesn't like her anymore. Guess I'm doing something right.

strictmomhere
by Bronze Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 3:11 PM
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My girls feel the same way:)

Quoting goddess99:

I don't really worry too much about this. A couple weeks ago my dd, 11, told me how shocked she was that Miley is behaving inappropriately. Her words. So that was nice to hear she gets it and she doesn't like her anymore. Guess I'm doing something right.

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jessicasmom1
by Silver Member on Feb. 5, 2014 at 3:28 PM
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Hmmm DD must worship God above all then I call it respect for people. idolize athletes, musicians, actors and actresses 

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