lately if its not one thing its another and i just want things to go back to normal.
my FIL and i got into a big fight the other day and i told Bry that i want to move. like.. now. even the fact that we have our own apartment, separated from their house etc, its not enough because his parents think that they can just stick their nose in our business and tell me how to raise my kids and treat my husband. and the funniest part! He treats his wife like a door mat and his kids cant stand him! so he doesnt really have room to talk. i know a lot of people are just like, oh ignore people who try to tell you how to raise your kids blah blah, but i dont. i cant handle it. it pisses me off. for him to look me in the face and tell me i "treat my son like absolute crap" because i wouldnt let him have a strawberry shake at 11:30 at night makes me want to spit in his face.
i'm sure one day i will forgive him, etc but for right now, the best thing is for him to stay the hell away from me and my kids. Bry and i decided to move to Salt Lake (its like 45-90 minutes away from here depending on where exactly we go) since he works up there and it will be good for me to get out of Utah Happy Valley Mormon Town. I may be LDS but i just dont fit in with the people here. i need to be out in the real world...
anyway. i kind of look at it like, if my FIL cant keep his nose out of my business and his opinions to himself, then he doesnt need to be involved in what we are doing etc so he wont have an opinion to form.
am i over reacting here? should i accept his apologies and get over it? i mean, i think a lot of it is because i have seen mothers who treat their kids like "absolute crap" and i am NOT one of them, i can promise that. i just am so pissed that he said that to me, and all the other fighting we do, i'm just ready to move on and forget about him altogether.