Called last night to tell me she had a positive prego test. She has a beautiful 8-month old baby boy, and wasn't planning on having another until he was at least 3 years old. Then she tells me she hasn't had a monthly since grandson was two months old.... She and her bf are supposed to tie the knot in October, and she was planning on going back to college that semester also.
It seems like since she met this boy (I can't call him a man), all she has done is lie to us about what is going on. They started seeing each other not long after her 17th bday. She is now 19. DD had plans on being an art teacher and artist. Now i don't know if she will ever see her dreams completed. She tells us they are breaking up one day, and she needs a place to stay. The next time we hear from her, three days later, they are staying together for the sake of the baby.
I am so tired of everything being drama with her that I want to move away...far away...and never come back!
My hubby told me last night that if she is prego again, we aren't going to be there as much this time (last time, we had to drive her 50 minutes to the hospital four times, and even moved her without the help of bf). He isn't even sure he can talk to her anymore. They were so close before this started, and he was just getting to the point where he felt somewhat close to her again. I don't wanna completely abandon her, because she had so many problems before, but I also can't keep doing this.
Thanks for letting me vent for a bit...
Update: DD went to the ER with cramping. Doctor took blood, did an ultrasound and said baby is doing fine. She is due Dec. 5. Baby is letting her know he is there, and he doesn't like her working so long, I guess. It's gonna be a long 9 months.