DO NOT let ANYONE tell you how to live your life or what is or is not good for you!
I have come to a realization! It never occurred to me before but something happened with my Grandfather that opened my eyes.
I almost made a HUGE decision after the birth of my last baby. I schedule a tubal, saying I was done and didn't want anymore children. Time got closer and closer and I ended up chickening out...THANK GOODNESS! I am very young, I have lots of little ones. I am told constantly how I don't need anymore. Everytime I get pregnant again everyone is in shock, wondering why. Everyone kept telling me I should be done, that I had enough. Everytime that I go out in public I have someone say "BOY! You've got your hands full!" People stare. Well, guess what!! I am an AMAZING mother and I ADORE every minute of my crazy life and my wonderful children! Yes, things get chaotic and crazy sometimes but there's never a dull moment and I always enjoy every minute I have with my many babies! I have a hard time telling people "No" or "Where to go and how to get there", so it is not an easy thing for me to do, but I think I'm finally ready to tell everyone to SHOVE IT! I am having more babies because I want them and I love them and they are all blessings and that's how I want to live my life. I LOVE my big family :) We all treasure it and always will!
I am so glad I followed my heart and didn't make a terrible, permanent decision that would have caused me heartache and regret later in life.
So don't listen to anyone! Don't make the mistakes I have been making for years! Follow your heart :)
And thank you for letting me vent! HAHA. I feel better!